Don't get me wrong, I'm not against it but I'm curious about the whole situation. When I was younger (20-30) women wouldn't even consider talking to me. Now I'm finding out that as I get older (30-40) I'm approached more easily. Like I said, I'm not complaining. What do younger women see in older men? Wouldn't they want to be around people there own age?
2006-09-19 08:02:59 · 32 answers · asked by Orangewedge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many women look around them and realize that most younger men are not ready for the commitment that they are looking for. They also see and older man as more stable and able to do more things because of their financial situations.
My husband is 7 years older then me...not that it's a huge difference, but I did not meet anyone that was were I wanted ot be in life that was the same age as myself. I am not a gold digger, we are by no means rich and he had no money when I met him.
2006-09-19 08:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They like their men experienced! Older men might be better lovers... Some think as well that if they get involved with an older man then he'll be more mature but most often that is not the case! LOL
Some girls lacked the male father figure when gorwing up and this could also be a reason...Not that they want to date a dad type guy but the older male presents is comforting - older men are well developed in body struction and hair growth and all this, which also can be a turn on! Rather then being involved with a younger guy that is not yet fully developed... We might as well think you being older you know what it is you want! LOL Some women also think that if he gets with someone younger then he will be less interested in other women and the older men won't leave their young hottie... LOL
Some gold diggin' bi_ches might just be looking for an easy free ride!!! To take you for all you have so they can be lazy and never work! Watch out for those kinds - a lot of them out there!!!!
2006-09-19 08:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're assuming all younger women are and this is not correct.
Just like some younger men are into older women. Have you seen the maturity level of many of the younger generation today? If you have it's not hard to understand why some of the younger ones are attracted to the older ones.
And more than likely it is because they think the older ones can give them a sexual experience that the younger ones can't.
I've had younger guys approach me and a better sexual experience or the idea of having someone more mature was their answers to why.
If you really want to know why someone does something then ask that person. Can't assume everyone does the same thing for the same reason.
2006-09-19 08:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women find that older men are at a maturity level on par with them even though they are younger. A 20 year old woman can be equal to a man in his 30's; and so on, mentally. Lets face it; the term young and dumb was coined for young men; also-cannonfodder.
2006-09-19 09:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, I've found that older men are more polite, mature, and considerate than guys my own age (I'm 22).
I've also found that guys my own age tend to go for younger women (18 and 19-year-olds). If I go to a club, for example, the guys my own age are usually off dancing with the college freshmen....which I'm not complaining about, 'cause it leaves the polite, mature, and considerate older guys for me! :)
2006-09-19 08:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think when I was younger I was looking for a "father figure". Someone to protect me, provide for me, and make most decisions. Now I just want to be with a mature and an intelligent person and a good provider. I found one, and he happens to be close to my age (we're both in our 30s). I think, plenty of younger women date guys their age, tho.
2006-09-19 08:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older men are mature and somehow... different. There's that air of mystery because we know you're probably load better in bed, know how to treat a woman, are better developed than young lads... That's a few reasons!
2006-09-19 08:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 54. We have been together for 3 years now. I tried to date younger guys but most of them were still immature, irresponsible, selfish and rude. Older guys treat you better than young guys do. My boyfriend has made me happy despite my family disapproval. He has 2 kids older than me but he loves me and I love him and that is all that matters. Yes, people look at us but neither one of us care what other people think.
2006-09-19 09:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by red_rose1415 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as guys get older they are more mature life is set most girls don't want the drama of a 20 yr old at least i don't id rather have a man that is stable on all levels
2006-09-19 08:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
meh. The reason for this is because guys mentally develop slower the most women. Meaning they are really immature until like their late 20's, if even that.
2006-09-19 08:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋