hasn't called her in two wks but it's not the first time he hasn't called her in a while she is so sad and i dont know what to tell her please help i wonder does this guy even care about her or did he just want one thing
2006-09-19 07:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by mrs.howard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She obviously got a look at his true colors. she should cut her "loses" and thank her lucky stars that she was given an indication of how shallow he was. Mr. Right is impatiently waiting for her to come his way. HURRY!!!!!
2006-09-19 08:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by “Mouse Potato” 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try and give her advice based on your experience, that way it doesn't seem like you're preaching to her. I don't know how old the two of you are, and what your experiences have been. The problem with losing your virginity at a young age is that you have to deal with the guy acting like he doesn't care about you in the future. I know a lot of people who have been down that road. The only thing you can tell her is that she can't lose herself to this guy and she can't let him treat her like that.
2006-09-19 14:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, realize that it will be difficult to get her to listen to your advise. She gave her virginity to someone. That's a big deal. People don't say, '...you never forget your first' for a reason. But it sounds like this guy wanted one thing. So she shouldn't have sex with him again. She should chalk it up to a bad decision and be more careful before deciding to have sex with anyone. She should just leave the guy alone.
2006-09-19 14:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by tate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that everyone makes mistakes, and the fact that he's not calling her is a good thing- it'll all work out in the end... he's obviously not the one for her.
2006-09-19 14:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by collegegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice: call him. If she moves on, and then it turns out he was just busy with life, then she'll be hurt that she didn't wait. If she doesn't move on and it turns out he's over her, then she'll have wasted her time. But if she calls him, she can find out what it is.
2006-09-19 14:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is only after 1 thing... he is using her, try cheering her up and telling her she is to good for him and there are men out there that will love her for what she is and most importantly respect her...
2006-09-19 14:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by taryn3piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get it together she was a piece of ***, an that is all she meant to her tell her that she can do much better, not to put herself out there like that.
2006-09-19 14:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by YAYASMAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got his one thing and moved on he'll call when he wants that thing again thats about it
2006-09-19 14:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by amr3169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is young then she learned a valuable lesson, hopefully she won't repeat it.
2006-09-19 14:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got one thing now he moved on
2006-09-19 14:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋