I have had a crush on this man since 7th grade now i'm 26. And the thing is, that if I were to get him, I wouldn't want him in a long term relationship because he has a girl and 6 kids w/ different mothers and the kicker is he slangs.
2006-09-19 07:41:24 · 18 answers · asked by just_wondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like him because in school he always protected me. He was popular and I was not so, that has a lot to do with it
2006-09-19 08:12:08 · update #1
It's the fact that the mystery is there because you've never actually had a relationship with him. It sounds a bit slutty but maybe you should try and get with him and get it out of your system? Just a one night thing. I wouldn't normally advise it but you'll always be curious else.
2006-09-19 07:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. You just know what you want and he's obviously not it. Move on and find someone that doesn't have a girl, 6 kids and that doesn't slang.
2006-09-19 14:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN...no need to sleep with him or even think about it unless you want long term and responsibility with him for those kids when he has them. U dont need a man like that
2006-09-19 14:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to just leave him alone gurl ive been there before and i ****** things up big time for me and him and his family and i nevr done it before to anyone else before or after cause the outcome was ****** up cause i pursued it and all i got out of it was sex and played and got into a bad *** fight that wasnt even worth it and now i know not to do it agian and i know alot of situations have differnt outcomes but my advice dont push it just try and not come in contact with him and start going out and dating to get ur mind off of him aight
2006-09-19 14:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by MISTY V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding me, girl if a man aint **** before he gets with you he aint gonna be **** while he is with you.....for one you dont want all that baby mama drama, two you dont want to have to deal with a man that can get locked up at any givin moment and have something to do with him, there are women that have gotten sentanced up to ten years just for being with a ***** who sells drugs and didnt care, think about what benifits you could actually get from being with this guy........NONE
2006-09-19 14:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by YAYASMAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get over it !!!!!!!! You need to start looking for a guy that is available to give you what you want in life.
2006-09-19 14:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cant help who we fall for. I suggest to just keep your distance. this is a no win situation.
2006-09-19 14:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is to get a new life.
2006-09-19 14:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Faez G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an uneducated black woman who needs a brain. when you see a man like that you run as far away as possbile
2006-09-19 14:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by PUDDIN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well at least you know you wouldn't want to be with him.
2006-09-19 14:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋