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Hi
To all of you that have answered my questions thank you!!

I just got curious bout the way women think now that this questions kept poping up.

Do women show their love at a constant rate and in diffent ways? From my experence some show me love in different ways and forms.

I know guys are more independent but some like the sweet caress of their loved woman constantly too.

Now, at age thirty I have come to the conclusions that If I ask for what I want I get it but not to a full extent.

What is the best way to approach the mind and heart of a woman at the same time?

2006-09-19 07:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by Man-atarms 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

I think a woman shows her love by doing nice things for her man. I don't think you can approach the mind and heart at the same time. The two are mutually exclusive.

2006-09-19 07:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0 0

Yes different women express their love in different ways. Just be yourself and follow your heart because each woman is different therefore, there is no set formula on the way to approach the mind and heart of a woman.

2006-09-19 07:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Women do show their love in different ways. Sometimes men just don't take the time to see that. They are too busy trying to be in control or bee too independent. Stop trying to be the man sometimes and just listen to a woman. You could learn alot of what they are trying to tell you by their body langauge and movements. Try it for a change and good luck.

2006-09-19 07:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tamiikaaa 2 · 0 0

OH YES!
I'm more than twice your age, lost two loving wives at a young age.
The last? A whole 'nother story.

But those two!
I can only say that I felt the same way about them. Before I remarried the second time, she taught me one thing. She knew the first. She knew what we had. She saw my children grow up. She was there for my wife when we lost a son at 21.

She said to me,"If you don't love again, you can never be loved."

She opened my heart and she dulled all the hurt and pain, with her love, and Oh, how she loved me, as I did her. I like to think that I returned it in full measure.

Those two, spent their "short life" giving and giving, without limit. (old tears again). Damn!

Yes, there are different ways to show and impart love. I think it has to be joined by God's love.
They both were the epitome, even though the second had a horrible first marriage.

They both died unexpectedly and suddenly, in my arms.
(tears again)

The last? Hmmm. For more than three years, she spent almost every hour of her time off from work with me. Called me, emailed me, finally told me how much she loved me, before I ever could. She was younger than I. Not a sexual relationship. And so, when she spoke of marriage, I had doubts, but the last thing I said to her before proposing, "You are the best thing in this town."

We married and after one year I had cancer. The marriage was over. I rarely saw her, and after life threatening surgery, it became worse.

Her love was money, and so I gave her "most" of what I had, thinking I could still buy her love.

It didn't, and with the result of the surgery, I knew nothing would change, and I had to give her life back to her.
When I was well, I left her everything and departed from her life.

She remarried and had an abusive husband, beat her, (how I despise that), and she divorced recently after 1 year of marriage.

She called me this month, wanted me to come back. NO!, I told her it was too late.
With all my feelings for her, I couldn't trust her again.

She showed me love before marriage, but none after. That's a different way, huh? A horse of a different color.

God, how I could love her. If I could trust again.
I could give her my "heart" if it would save her life.

Ya, they show it in different ways.

I've written two songs that hold promise. My music teacher is making a demo with his band.
One is the story of my life, above.
The second is a song of the ways I love her.
She may never hear either one, but I can, in my mind and heart.

2006-09-19 08:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by ed 7 · 0 0

This is a difficult question to answer. It would pretty much depend on what 'type' of woman you would/are dealing with, how in tune you are with her needs, as well as, how well you can communicate your own needs.

I personally believe that the 'heart' and the 'mind' of a woman are so closely related that if you can truely reach one, the other will follow along.

2006-09-19 07:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0 0

Be yourself. Number one in dating/relationships/marriage. If you want the woman to show affection, then you need to express it and give what you get. Women want to feel loved, cherished and above all Respected. You will find a way, but remember, we are all different and we all want different things at different points in our lives. What I want today may change dramatically in ten years. The key is to change with your partner and grow together. Best of luck to you!

2006-09-19 07:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by lee911 3 · 0 0

yes! they show love different than men do, a woman's love is more emotional, a man's love is more physical, romance is the key if you wanna win a woman's heart, we like to be flattered and have our man's full attention...

2006-09-19 07:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by spanishqueen39 2 · 0 0

yea i mean most girls are very different so they show how they like you alot different. i think thats what makes things interesting. i really dont' think that there is a way that you can get into a girls head. but i mean just be you.

hope that helps.

2006-09-19 07:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0 0

Absolutely yes, to first question.
To you last question, be honest.

2006-09-19 07:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by makeitright 6 · 0 0

Show her you love her.

2006-09-19 07:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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