Met a great girl less than 2 months ago. We really care for each other, enjoy spending time together and the sex is great. She has already told me she loves and and has started talking about me breaking my apt. lease or not renewing it so I can go live with her. Her place would not be my ideal choice and her housekeeping skills leave alot to be desired. I feel this conversation is happening way too early in our relationship, she is rushing these ideas and that I cannot say when or if I would be ready to move in with her. Her insecurities kicked in, my comment has made her mad, with her saying I killed her dreams for our future and now our relationship may be different..
I feel I am totally correct in stating that things are moving too fast and that we should just slow down, take it light and take the time to learn more about each other before making big life-changing decisions like this. I think her reaction is irrational.
What do you think??
2006-09-19 07:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by sportygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has issues and she is being irrational . then on the other hand maybe she is afraid of losing you to another woman .Either way she has alot of issues and maybe you need to sit her down and have a talk with her. She needs to understand how you feel if she can't then maybe she is not the one for you. Either way you will know soon enough. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 08:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea man i think that there is nothing wrong with what you said. it's not fair to you that she is doing what she's doing. Now i mean have you told her that you think that she's moving to fast. i mean i a way i am in the same state that you are getting her into. the girl that i like and all that just asked for space and that's what i am giving her until something will happen hopefully.
man i really hope that all goes well.
2006-09-19 14:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. She definitely has some issues. Tread softly. If you feel that she is being above and beyond irrational then I suggest you cut ties. Good luck!
2006-09-19 14:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right, too fast. And if she doesn't make any kind of compromise or want to hear what you have to say, then maybe she is not the one for you right now.
Better to find out that stuff sooner than later.
2006-09-19 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Get out while you can.
2006-09-19 14:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋