I have been living with my cousin for 1 year due that me and my boyfriend has a disagreement when living with his sister so i moved out and his sister put him out so he has been staying with my cousin and her boyfriend. Anyway since we been living together it has been like h@ll there. Every wrong thing you can think of that is what they did. To this day I just can't believe my 1st cousin would do something like that to me. She is a sh@$$y person and her boyfriend is just as messy as she is . He have cheated my man out of money and everything. So we had to move out to get away from this mess. What would you do or say to someone like these type of people?
2006-09-19 07:27:08 · 14 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
leave and do nothing. it only complicates things
2006-09-19 07:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't change people. Only what you do and how you respond to them. Avoid them or get away from them. Don't be used. Find a path for yourself and your man and go your way and let these people be alone in their world. Misery loves company. Don't get sucked into the misery. Take this as a learning experience. The both of you would be happier planning a future together of happiness!
2006-09-19 14:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tesra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it pass. You were a guest there and you didn't like the way it was. So leave it at that. Move on and be better off from the experince. Know that you won't want to stay with them again. When one door closes in your life, another door opens up in your life.
2006-09-19 14:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Steve P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely nothing. Consider yourself lucky that you and your boyfriend are out of there. Avoid your worthless cousin and her trashy boyfriend like the plague. They are nothing but trouble. And trouble is all that will befall you if you have anything to do with them. Associating with trash will only make you trashy.
2006-09-19 14:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorta confused as to what you are asking.
If you have moved out, then start your own life and let it go and try to be a better person than they are. Learn from it.
2006-09-19 14:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. just stop relationship for ever.
at the end of the day put things in perspective: they helped you at start + what you asked from them was huge favour. they are just not worth having more relationship with: it happens.
cheers
2006-09-19 14:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by casper_international2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm.. I would say to You. why don't you get your own place and stop living with relatives. I mean you are an adult aren't you? if not, then stop shacking up with men who can't support you. but it's yur life..
2006-09-19 14:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by 1confused1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just leave and never live with her again.
2006-09-19 14:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you go to someone else for the help you need.
2006-09-19 14:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
AS a Christian.my best advice will be to forgive and forget!move on your life and try to build your career with whatever resources you have!Pray to God!HE ALWAYS LISTENS!I will pray for you !May God Bless You!
2006-09-19 14:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by rockyjsa 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋