Am I going to cheat on my girlfriend?

Question

My girlfriend is smokin hot. Face, body, personality - she has it all and she's beautiful.

Whenever I appear in her dreams; she says I cheat on her. She laughs it off and goes onto another topic. Recently, I've had three dreams also (that I haven't told her about), where I cheat on her. These are very realistic. I feel anxious and after I've cheated, I feel regretful.

I have absolutely no desire to cheat on my girl! Why would I? She's gorgeous!

But what are our dreams telling me? This really has me disturbed. I feel like I just want to lock myself up so I don't risk screwing up.

What's my mind telling me?

Answer 1

i dream those dreams too, and i've been happily married for ten years with no cheating at all.

Answer 2

That's funny - with every boyfriend I've had, I have dreams that I hook up with some guy, and after wards I remember that I have a boyfriend, and I'm very upset that I cheated. However, I don't read into it that much - I also have dreams that he cheats on me. I think that my mind just anticipates every possible way that things could get f'd up in our relationship, and plays them out in my dreams. Dreams are not previews of what is about to happen. Sometime dreams are just absurd. I've dreamed about people turning into animals, dating Steve Carrell (I don't even think he's good looking!) etc. Don't worry about it.

Answer 3

Something you don’t want and have never considered nevertheless keeps happening and you feel guilty about it. It’s a dream about temptation and caving to temptation. You have everything, this beautiful girlfriend, but against your better judgment you’re willing to sacrifice that for a little on the side. Why? Do these themes ring true in any other part of your life? Think about it, and you’ll be able to figure out what these dreams really mean.

Answer 4

I might suspect that she's dreaming these dreams because she feels insecure - regardless of how hot she is - that you will eventually become bored of her and search for greener pastures.

You on the other hand, are having dreams similar to hers because your mind is absorbing this information unconsciously, and feeding it back to you while you sleep and your defenses are down.
Of course you're not going to cheat intentionally! That's not the point. Your brain is just taking out the trash - and sometimes its odd how realistic it is when that trash is so crazy! I wouldn't worry about the dreams - as long as they're not even close to mimicking real life.

Answer 5

She is probably just dreaming what she fears... has she had someone cheat on her in the past??? Normally what you dream is whatever is in your subconsious. Or it's a fear... So by her telling you that she is having those dreams, you are now fearing that it is really going to happen, and you are now dreaming about it... It could also be a warning that you may be tempted to cheat soon... SO DONT DO IT!!! lol consider yourself warned!

Answer 6

Ok, the first thing is you need to remember you have control over your mind and thoughts. You just might have a fantasy of being with another girl. As long as you don't act upon it you're fine.

Answer 7

it's not telling you anything, Your girlfriend told you that she had a dream where you cheated on her and it shocked you, cuz it seems that you are not that kind of person, were you thinking about it before you went to sleep? what you see in your dreams it at all comes from your imagination

Answer 8

I'm thinking that you love her to much and you're looking for reasons for you not to screw up don't worry about it. You dream what be on your mind when you go to sleep and in your case your girl is always on your mind it's just your mind running wild. your human relax..

Answer 9

I was told that when you have dreams of your spouse cheating that it means the opposite. I've had dreams of my boyfriend cheating and he swears he'll never do it.

Answer 10

i have dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me its because it is on are mine we think deep down where scaird of you cheating on us it hink it cos some times i dont trust him may be she does not just you there are to process for dreaming one of them is call
Psychological theorists of dreams focus upon our thoughts and emotions, and speculate that dreams deal with immediate concerns in our lives, such as unfinished business from the day, or concerns we are incapable of handling during the course of the day. Dreams can, in fact, teach us things about ourselves that we are unaware of.

Connections between dreams that the human psyche have been made by many people over thousands of years. The famous Greek philosopher, Aristotle wrote in his "Parva Naturalia," over 2,200 years ago, of a connection between dreams, waking experiences, and emotional needs.

Others have delved into more complicated explanations for dreams, such as the prophetic nature of dreams written of in the Bible, which was and is a belief held by many cultures. Sigmund Freud, one of the fathers of modern psychology, believed dreams to be symbolic of any number of things buried deep within our minds and our memories.

Until someone proves or disproves one of these theories, or poses an alternate one, we are left at square one. Our knowledge as to what causes us to dream is limited to the fact that we do dream, and that dreams occur during the REM phase of sleep. Sweet dreams!

Answer 11

IT IS JUST A DREAM UNTIL YOU ACT ON IT. IF YOU TRULY LOVE HER YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO CHEAT. IF YOU ARE REALLY THAT WORRIED YOU NEED TO JUST NOT LET YOURSELF BE IN ANY SITUATION WHERE IT WOULD BE POSSIBLE TO CHEAT. AS FAR AS HER DREAMS SHE IS PROBABLY WORRIED ABOUT IT TO SOME DEGREE EVEN IF IT IS ONLY IN HER SUBCONSCIOUS MIND.