I let my bipolar disorder get out of whack and spent a week in the hospital. I have been out for about two weeks now. There is a woman I know that I really want to ask out, but I am afraid when she finds out I am bipolar and have been in a hospital she will reject me. I feel fine now and think I could handle it, but am afraid to ask her. Any suggestions?
2006-09-19 06:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bring it up right away but If the subject comes up and you have to talk about it tell her the truth. you had an episode, got help, are better now and are doing the things you need to do to not have another (you ARE, right?). If she has a problem with that then she's not worth your time.
2006-09-19 06:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Scott L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a bad idea, ask her out. Now if things do get serious between you'll two I think its best for you to tell her all about your condition and explain to her that it won't affect her in any way that you take medication and those emotional things are under control. But god luck and don't worry most likely she will say, YES!
2006-09-19 14:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her out yes. but get to know each other and in the middle of conversation just let her know that you are Bi-Polar, that you aren't crazy or anything. let her know you take meds and that you are normal. You do not have to tell her on your first date. Let her get to know you and start to like you back. I hope it all works out for you
Good Luck Friend.
2006-09-19 13:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tellher that sometimes it gets out of control, but for the most part you are regulated. some people might be scared to start anything with someone who is bipolar, or has another disease. just reassure her that it can be managed. and that you will manage it.
2006-09-19 13:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by rachey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU think its too soon.......then it probably is. Wait until YOU feel like you're comfortable enough on all aspects to take your interest a bit further. For both of your sakes.
2006-09-19 13:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know unless you try and it would be worse if it ended up too late to ask her out. Good luck!
2006-09-19 13:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be around her. The right time kind of pops up if you aren't nervous. Let it happen, don't force it.
2006-09-19 14:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by hellfirsthand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better ask now what she thinks about it...but not when she is totaly in love....that will be not fair....let her choose the one she wants...and don't afraid of "too soon"...be afraid of "too LATE!"
2006-09-19 14:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your disease isn't going to go away - don't let it run your life. If she's worth it she won't have a problem.
2006-09-19 13:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Coop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST ASK HER....... ONCE YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE THEN DISCUSS THIS WITH HER. IF BY CHANCE SHE DOESN'T WANNA SEE U ANYMORE THEN SCREW HER. THERE'S SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE AND YOU WILL FIIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU AND WILL BE THERE FOR YOU THROUGH IT ALL.
2006-09-19 13:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋