My bf, is all he wants is sex but I want a real relationship (like real romance, dates, get-togethers, etc.) do u think that this a good relationship?
2006-09-19 06:47:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a new b/f
2006-09-19 06:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay. What you want seems to be the makings of a good relationship, but it doesn't seem to be what you're getting. I'm fairly sure your "boyfriend" likes it this way just fine!!
I think it's fairly simple. It's your life. If the current situation doesn't meet your criteria for a relationship, then you don't have one,at least not a complete one. These types of "partial relationships" are difficult to move to the next level, because usually one of the parties is very happy where they are.
It appears you are the unhappy one! It may be time to end it!!
2006-09-19 13:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by MALIBU93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that if all he wants is sex from you he is not your boyfriend. You may be looking at him as he is your man but he is not looking at you as his girl, he is looking at you as a free piece of *** that knows all he has to say is a few sweet nothings that mean nothing at all to him and you'll kick in, Why buy the horse when you get the milk for free you understand good luck move on and find someone that will really love you and not just use you
2006-09-19 13:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it should be a well rounded relationship....
sex in the morning afternoon and night, then the real romance part, then back to sex, and then more sex. and then more and more sex till you drop dead from sex.
you already know the answer....just sex alone is not a relationship...companionship to put it short is also part of it
2006-09-19 13:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if your asking us for advice, The tune of your question makes me think that perhaps your unhappy in the relationship. You think that all your bf wants from you is sex, right?
2006-09-19 13:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Captianpr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why commit to anything when you can get it for free. Tell him to get lost until he grows up and can show you the respect you deserve. The more you let him use you makes YOU the enabler and partly to blame. Expect the best and don't settle for anything less!!!!! GaryT
2006-09-19 13:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just treating you like a prostitution service centre going on sales. Pardon my bluntness.
Guys like that will never get serious with you, even if they change. Leopards will never change its spots. Geddit?
Cheers and all the best!
2006-09-19 13:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No......if even you can see that's all he wants that should be a red flag to get out. Consider yourself lucky as most women cant even see the signs that their significant other is only after one thing.
2006-09-19 13:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girl from a girl i think that you are crazy if you stay with him because there is always somebody out there that will treat you better than him and if he just wont's you for sex then leave him because you can find somebody that will wont you for more than that.
2006-09-19 13:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship. if he truly loved you he would have waited to build a relationship first
2006-09-19 13:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kuraimizu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so we know what he wants, does he know what you want? does he try to give it to you?, if not then I believe you are in a bad relationship.
2006-09-19 13:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋