in a relationship and has no kids. I'm 24, is it okay if I ask her out? Or is the age difference to much?
2006-09-19 06:44:11 · 30 answers · asked by horrorfan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went out with a sexy 40 yr old when I was 21, and we had a great relationship, but eventually you realize when I'm 50 and getting ready to retire you're already going to be in assisted living.
2006-09-19 06:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are on the same level, as in have the same intrests, want the same things from life, enjoy being together etc. it doesnt matter what age you are but beware if it is just sexual attraction then a relationship wount work. im 19 and was going out with a 24 yr old. it was great at the start but got boaring soo quick. he was way too serious and took me too seriously. then one of my frnds showed me that i was only 19 and needed someone fun not someone to be serious with. so this is my advice: take a chance ask her out, but beware that older people sometimes want diff things from life so if you get into a relationship make sure u know where each stands and what you want out of the realationship
2006-09-19 13:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just be passing time but the only thing you've got to lose is if some other guy beats you to the punch first and ends up having a relationship with here when it could've been you so ask her out after class sometime.
2006-09-19 13:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that you have to answer with your heart. If you feel the connection with this person, age shouldn't be a deciding factor whether you go out. Now don't get me wrong, if she were an underage minor you know what the answer would be, but you're both consenting adults. If others have issues with it, it's up to you to decide what you feel in your heart. Just be open minded and go with the flow!
I wish you alot of luck!
2006-09-19 13:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by kawman611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the age difference is too great and you will find that you have not much in common, other than the flirtatious behavior which is just that. Flirtatious behavior and nothing more. Find someone more age appropriate. And what class are you talking about? I hope this is night school or something like that.
2006-09-19 13:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, go for it. I am 44 years old ( woman), younger men ask me out all the time, I mean .... she is not married and you are totally legal, I mean it is all for fun. She may love it, in the least she will be flattered that you asked........ if she says no then it is probable the age difference. Look at De mi and Ashton and older men date younger women xxxix
2006-09-19 13:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by sofora k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I just had a date w/a 23 year old and I'm over 40. We had an absolute blast!! Even if it doesn't work out, we're not like the young chicks...you'll still have her as a friend.
2006-09-19 13:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, and her age doesn'tbother you then go for it. Why not??? It seems like she's into you to. I say do it!!!!
Oh and I am 23 and am in love with a 35 year old.
2006-09-19 13:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is only too much if one of you feels like it's too much. Ask her out, and find out for yourself.
2006-09-19 13:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's good and you both like each other then whats the problem? The relationship is between you and her and you shouldn't care about what other people say.
2006-09-19 13:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by BanAna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋