We've been dating for about 4 or 5 mos now. When we first started going out, things were just amazing. I am talking the fire was blazing. Now things are starting to cool off a little. She started a second job recently (she is a bartender at night at a pretty nice restaurant we both work at). Part of me says she did it b/c she isn't sure about things, maybe feelings changed. Another part of me says she did it b/c I was looking for a place of my own when we started dating and maybe she was fond of the idea. She is very proud of being very independent and I know she is working out something in her head (she has just seeemed a little distant). I know she needs space but we do have plans for Friday night. Should I keep the faith? Anymore I can do than just let her come to me? I already do the little stuff a lot like a stupid card ar a little back rub, and my trademark is becoming bringing a rose almost everytime we have an actual date.
2006-09-19 06:41:59 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at 4 or 5 months the 'honeymoon' phase is probably just wearing off and she's getting comfortable so things are calming down. Also with the second job she may just be busy/tired.
If you're really concerned.. ask her.
2006-09-19 06:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you the truth. Something most guys don't understand and don't beileive. If you listed to the advice I'm about to give you I guarantee it will make things better. You're too nice, too sweet, girls don't like that. When you bring a rose it says, I'm not good enough myself so accept this flower to make up for that. Here's what you do, and you may think it's crazy and not want to do it, but cancel the date, distance yourself a little and she'll come after you.
2006-09-19 13:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most girls dont want to be weighed down with gifts and attention sometimes the girl just wants to have a quiet,calm and relaxing evening with her man and watch some movies(i prefer horror or action but whatever)and she likes to be held and kissed on the forehead and wants to feel like she is loved. dont worry if you dont know what to do and she is not happy with you then whoever is out there will love you for you and something else.
2006-09-19 13:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at this in Wiki Social Skills
How women select men
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=How_women_select_men
2006-09-19 14:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needed more money and more time to herself. You are smothering her, so she needs an excuse to get away from you for eight hours a day.
2006-09-19 13:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient
2006-09-19 13:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋