i recently found out that a few months back my bf called his x gf and talked on the phone for like an hour at night..we talked about it..argued..then i gave him another chance..but for some reason that still haunts me..i think about it every now and then even though it happened like 4 months ago..and it still makes me so angry..it gets me thinking so negative about him..sometimes makes me hate him for doing that..since i already forgave him i know i should forget about it..but i really cant help it!! is there anything i can do to make that completely clear from my mind??? i just get really bothered!
2006-09-19 06:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by chicksgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that one of the main reasons why you are angry is because you are probably still wondering what they had to talk about. Just relax you mind, if the situation has already been settled it doesnt make any sense still thinking about it. i mean he is yours and she is the past. if you keep thinking about it will only damage the relationship and that would be silly sense those two are not in each others lives anymore. just forget about it if you can and relish in the fact that he belongs to you
2006-09-19 07:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still thinking about it enough to where it bothers you, then you are not over it. And from now on you will quesion his trust and (as you stated) you will look at him different. You may be able to get over it, but if it bothers you that much, maybe you guys need to take a break. It will give you time to clear your mind and also see where his head is at about your relationship because a break is just another way to test a guy's loyalty. Breaking and breaking up are 2 different things
2006-09-19 06:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all pick up baggage along this sojourn. What you need to keep in mind is that if you allow your hands to become too encumbered with it you cannot reach for the happiness that also lies all along the way.
This is a very small test of your capacity to do so. There may be larger ones along the way. If you do not begin to train yourself to handle small problems, you will have no chance against the larger ones.
Let go.
2006-09-19 06:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girls all think once you move in we have to forget about everyone else. I can't tell you how many girls have tried to make me quit talking to all girls and stop going out with my friends because they think I'm going to meet a new girl. You can still be friends with an ex after you break up,, it doesn't mean he wants to sleep with her again.
2006-09-19 06:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's something that you can't get over it may be time to consider moving on.
2006-09-19 06:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call your ex
2006-09-19 06:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋