We've all heard the saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours but if it doesn't it never really was." Has anyone ever had anything really come back to them after they've let it go? Please share some details if you have.
2006-09-19 06:25:50 · 16 answers · asked by thebeej 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the more u show that u want her back, i think the harder it becomes. thus the best thing to do is to get your priorities back, such as focusing on your job, spent more time with your family, catch up or reconcile with friends u might have lost.
reflect and be a better man. when she realise somehow u does change for the better, chances might be she is coming back. meanwhile treat her just a friend. saying is easy but this is the best way out. take time to consider to if she is really the right one for u, if not whem the right one does come, go slow and get to know her more.
meanwhile, ask yourself if u will make yourself a good and faithful husband? if not keep trying there's always room for improvement.
2006-09-19 06:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've heard that and people tell me that all the time. Well, I didn't listen and I went after I wanted because I'm not a patient person at all. If I know I want something I go for it. But at least I know now. Sometimes in life you take chances, if it goes your way, great, if not, you move on with your life and know that you tried your best.
2006-09-19 06:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't ever really come back...and that expression is just a pile of crap to make all the losers of the world feel like they have gained wisdom...even if their hearts have been ripped out of their chests in the process. Here's a concept: if it leaves you like a stray dog, don't let it back in the door when the weather gets cold. Forgiveness is highly overrated.
2006-09-19 06:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have but I am not sure I am keeping him. He begged and begged. I think he only wanted to come because I didn't want him. I let him come back but now he acting like he could give two shits again. Sooooo, I am not sure I am keeping him.
2006-09-19 06:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by shugabam! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes love really does come back.... my boyfriend and i dated when we were in 7th grade but we were too immuture to handle a relationship we let us go...but that was 5 years ago and he called me 1 morning 3 months ago and told me he still loved me and has been thinking about me last couple of months and debating to call me... and well we have been dating for almost 3 months now and we are engaged so yea love does come back if you let it go...if he or she really loves you then they will come back just be patient...it was hard to let him go then but he knows me and him would have still been together if he didnt let me go and really hurt me...he even started to do drugs and got in a lot of trouble cuz he missed me and realized he needed him in his life so yea true love does give second chances and comes back.
2006-09-19 06:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We met when i was 14 I was too young to be tied down when I was sixteen I dated him for about a month and decided I still wasn't ready to be tied down, he dated other people and so did I I realized he was the one and he started to play games after that, so I gave up. Somehow we have been married for five years now!!!
2006-09-19 06:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by brunette 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i've let go something and still it hasn't come back as yet, i'm thinking of going back for it but don't know how.
2006-09-19 06:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Yeah, but I wasn't ready for it when it finally returned, so I just lost it again. (A guy) I was shocked he showed up in a parking lot at Walmart in Texas when he lives in California.
I wish I said something, but I'm really shy. What a drag.
2006-09-19 06:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
omfg ( oh my freakin gosh ) i have on two occasions . but ill tell you the best one !
okay , well i was goin out w/ my best friend at the time and ive known him for 14 yrs and well i had to move and it was the worst day of my life ! or so i thought that same exsact day i found out i was movin he was movin to the same place ........... weird huh ........... but then he moved to chicago and i was in florida so we said our good -byes and life went on ! but 6 mo ago i gotta call but didnt answer. i got 98 missed calls that day and still had no clue who it was ! he called the last time and i answered but i was confused bout who it was ! he never did tell me who it was . i know i should have recognized his voice but i didnt ! so we met up and we re- started a relationship ! and to this day i still talk to him but am currently not dating anyone ! he moved to my neighborhood and lives 2 blocks down the road !
life is sweet !
2006-09-19 06:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah - he came back, but then left again - better off without him! the second time he left, it was easier to get over it.
2006-09-19 06:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by livetall1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋