What is the best way to have a healthy and happy relationship with a woman?

Question

Hi
I never thought I would ask this questions here but WHAT does a woman really want in a man?
I have tried to surprize, please and connect with a woman but for some reason it does not work!

Sexually I think I am great in bed but how in this world do I know that if we guys tend to believe that girls alsways lie about orgazms.
I also think that I am caring enough. I believe that a nice rose would make a girl smile or a kiss when you don't expect it.

I also believe in the true power of love. This could sound cheese to some people but I am the kind of guy that believes in love. Love is what keeps me exited about life. Love is what makes me realize that a life could end at any day but the connection you create stays with your partner for ever. Love is what makes me realize that no matter how macho I am when I look at my partner in the eyes I am as vulnerable as she is to protect and care for her no matter what.

I keep questioning myself if it is me the one with the problem or not!

Answer 1

Honesty, time alone, respect, confidence, learn/do new things, tell her you love her each day, show her affection when in public, be kind to her, smile at her,..................................

Sex is small part of any GOOD relationship. If you base your relationship on only sex, then sex is the only relationship you two share in common.

Answer 2

It could be that you may appear over-anxious to your girl. Sometimes too much of a good thing can get old... sort of like if it was your birthday everyday.
Women want to be romanced, it is true. Sometimes, it has to do with chemistry. You say you want true love, and a lot of that relates to how you chemically mix with a lady.
I personally wish that my fiancee could be more attentive and more romantic. (he hardly kisses me) but then he will do something so totally unexpected that I forget about all that stuff.
If you want to woo the ladies, be yourself. Don't try to do all the stuff you think she might want.
As for knowing if a girl is coming... you CAN TELL. If she says shes coming, but you don't feel any muscular contractions in there... chances are she's not. It's always been a wonder to me how a girl could lie about something like that. I would make my man go till i got there... (but I never had a problem with orgasms in the first place). Trust me.. its very noticeable when a girl truly orgasms.
But the problem... could just be that you appear over-anxious. Cool it a bit. Play hard to get. Sometimes, that's enough to get the girl begging.

Answer 3

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

Answer 4

There are many ways to make a woman happy. A woman loves it when her lover helps her with her coat on or opening a door for her. Small things are important to a woman even if it's just a card or note, a phone call unexpectedly. When she walks into a room, notice what she's wearing or what scent she has on and compliment her on it. Nothing encourages a woman to make the most of herself than a compliment from her lover.
Those special annual occasions that men are famous for forgetting, valentine's day, your anniversary, and so on are very dear to the heart of a woman. Pick her up a gift, and it doesn't necessarily have to be something that she needs, she can pick that up for herself. Let it be something that she needs psychologically - flowers, chocolates, perfume, something frilly - a gift just to say how much you really love her. And gifts shouldn't always be just for those special occasions. It really warms a woman's heart when her lover gives her a gift just because he was thinking of her.
Constantly tell her how much you love her and show it physically through thought and gesture. Become attuned to her sensitivity through understanding and respect for who she is and what she means to you. Obtain an attitude of loving concern and faith in your partner's character. Respect her frailties and imperfections and accept her as who she is, the woman you chose to love. Appreciate her and let her know that you do.
When you meet that special someone for the first time treat her with courtesy and respect. Focus more on her interests and strenghts rather than your own, you'll be appreciated more and you will feel exhilarated. Be tactful and considerate in your conversations and honest, in other words, don't try to be someone your not, you'll be appreciated and accepted more so. And don't be afraid to use compliments or tactful words of encouragement. Good Luck!

Answer 5

I can't believe I read this whole LONGGG question word for word. You sound like a great guy. Any appreciative women should be thrilled to have you. I think RESPECT is a major factor. You have got your bases covered with love. That little word love encompasses a lot. From Paul's letter to the Corinthians, love is patient love is kind, does not look for it's own interest, believes all thing, hopes all things... etc etc. Love never fails. You, my brother, are on the right track. Now you gotta find that sista that is compatible with you. Someone who shares similar interest and who will put up with your faults as well as you can put up with hers.

BEST WISHES

Answer 6

Ever think you can't buy love??? Even a simple rose won't do it !!!! Communicate !!!! That means you listen, retain, & learn as well as talk & have great sex. Being in love is wonderful but just like evrything else there are 2 sides to the coin. When somebody tells you it is the little things that matter in a relationship............it is sooooooooooooo true!!!!! If you can listen a basically repeat & comprehend what she tells you then there is a good foundation, but you might want he same in return. It isn't all about give give give or take take take.................sometimes it is about meeting in the middle and giving of yourself. So, you get burned in the process; that just means it wasn't menat to be. My husband always tells me that even a blind squirrel can find a nut & after 15 years of marriage (good & bad) I finally get it............now maybe he could share that pearl of wisdom w/my 4 brothers.

Answer 7

You have no problem at all! can I have your number? LOL!!!
wow that's really beautiful and it sounds that you are on the right track to finding love and having a healthy relationship with an appreciative woman.
Cooking can also be nice, even if you don't know how to, attempting to is all that really matters.
But best of luck in finding that woman, I just love your perspective on love and life.

Answer 8

What do women want? They want a guy who is funny, makes them laugh when they are feelin down. Tells her how he feels about her everyday. Respects her and supports her in every way that he can. Treat her now and again and shows her off to eveybody to make he feel the most special thing in your life. Give her space when she needs it and be there when she needs someone to lean on. Send her nice messages throughout the day to let her know he is thinkin of her and if she is smilin at the end of all this then you know you are her rock

Answer 9

Maybe it is the way you're presenting the rose, or maybe you've only 'believed' the nice rose would work, and never followed through like someone I once knew. Yes he was great in bed, but he didn't know how to actually follow through with the rose or the chocolates or the kiss. He spent alot of time stalking me, observing me. I would call his place and his brother's place and leave messages that if he wanted to talk he should call me or come by and knock on the door, and he never did. So I got creeped out and moved far away.But never phoned me or knocked on my door and let everyone know how hurt he was when I moved - everyone but me! The only vibe I was getting was that he was watching and wouldn't communicate.

Are you sure she knows your feelings? Are you really communicating?

Okay, once he brought roses for me to my work, but my manager swiped them for herself and I didn't find out until they were wilted that they were mine.

Answer 10

Sounds like you're a people pleaser and that can be a turn off for girls. What you need to do is BE A MAN and be confident in yourself.

Sometimes women will want something and if you start giving them everything they want all the time and acting like every whim and wish of theirs is your life's mission... it gets annoying... and she will start to lose interest because it seems like you don't know what YOU want...

Go for what YOU want... be a man, don't be rude or degrading... but say NO to your woman sometimes. She will secretly think its hot...

I know, we can be weird... but it goes both ways... respecting yourself is the secret to attraction.

Answer 11

1. Women do not know what they want - give that up. They don't know what they want in a man - they don't know what they want in a dress.

2. Give her what you want to give her, not what she says she wants, and give generously.

3. In a short term relationship sex is about fun; in a marriage relationship, sex is giving - don't have sex with a woman in a marriage unless you have something to give.

4. Men should ignore their feelings, men have no capacity to deal with emotions and therefore should do their best to avoid them, or at least avoid being influenced by them.

5. Being 'in love' as akin to being mentally incapacitated. You cannot think clearly and everything is skewed as far as your perceptions are concerned. Don't make any decisions while you are 'in love.'

What are you NOT doing?

Own your territory
Listen without trying to solve her problems
GIVE great sex to her
Cooperate with her - 'yes dear' is a wonderful phrase
Do fun and exciting things for her to let her know that she's special

FP