I have 3 guys fighting over me... one is my ex, another is my boyfriend of 2 months, and the other is the love of my life..which should I go for??
2006-09-19 06:08:48 · 32 answers · asked by Mommy to be- 05-24-09-Kaydee Lyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lucky you!! I'd obviously go with..love of your life.
2006-09-19 06:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well why is your ex an ex? Maybe you made the right decision with your ex the first time so let's move on. Boyfriend of 2 mo and love of your life- who do you have a stronger bond with? Who do you see actually lasting?
2006-09-19 06:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by ღஜJuliஜღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any sane person would go for the love of his/her life. The problem lies between guilt and courage.
Sticking with your bf of 2 mths would only be responsibility/committment and guilt, since you have already found the love of your life. Perhaps you were just afraid that someone would call you a slut/***** if you ever leave him. Problem now is if you could live with that name,in exchange for happiness?
There is a reason why they call them "Ex". Meaning, they are history, and history are meant to be recorded down on books and stay on the bookshelves.
Hope that clear your thoughts. :)
2006-09-19 06:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a pretty picture. YOU may be the one to get hurt. Go for the love of your life in my opinion. You are still young if things don't work out right now, still keep in touch, maybe after both of you have matured then you can start from there.
2006-09-19 06:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love of your life. Lucky girl. You must be very special if three guys are fighting over you! Good luck with them!
2006-09-19 06:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it dear, your ex is exactly that an EX your love of your life is obviously the person whom you may think of growing old with, oh and this two month thing has got to go, but YES it is FINE to have guys fight over you.
2006-09-19 06:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by zermenoj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with a guy who isnt your love of your life that you say? Be with the love of your life cuz you seem to know who he is so i dont know why this is such a hard qestion for you. you deserve to be happy so dont date someone cuz you feel like you have to date him. just date the guy who is the love of your life cuz you need to be with the guy who loves you and you love him. you dont like gettin hurt by guys and i dont think your boyfriend wants you to lead him on any longer so just be honest and break up wit him...good luck!
2006-09-19 06:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question...
one is my ex, another is my boyfriend of 2 months, and the other is the love of my life..which should I go for??
LOVE OF MY LIFE. duh. it's not really nice of you to let these guys fight over you. pick one and move on.
2006-09-19 06:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit jerking them around. They each obviously feel they still have a chance due to the fact that you have not been clear about your feelings. It is up to you to put an end to it. Unless you are trying to keep them hanging around like a safety net.
2006-09-19 06:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the love of your life. In most cases, he's usually the nicest of the three. And I bet you have the most in common with him.
2006-09-19 06:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by David F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not O.K. Somehow you have sent mixed signals to cause this. The decent thing to go is to make clear your feelings to those concerned.
Which ever way you want to go is your business, although I really think that you are rather enjoying this.
2006-09-19 06:16:03 · answer #11 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋