ok me and my ex gf are talking again. we dating about two years ago and at the time i was 17 and she was 14. Her mom was cool with us dating but her dad wasnt so we broke up. but now they are cool with us dating. she came to me bout a month and a half ago and said she wants to talk again. we also work together now. Recently we havent been talking to each other lately so i had asked her to be honest and tell me if she still likes me. she said she does and wants to go out again but doesnt want a steady boyfriend right now. her last bf was a real jerk and they went out for like a year. they been broke up for like 6 months. i really want a steady gf but she doesnt want a steady bf right now but eventually wants to go back out. what should i do? i really love her but i dont know if i really want to wait cause there is no telling how long it could take. so what should i do?
2006-09-19 06:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, nothing. play the field, date her if you want but nothing serious. it sounds like she doesn't like to settle down or she still wants to play the field, and so should you. remember that you're the catch. why pursuit just one when you're still single.
2006-09-19 06:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. If things work out in the future, then you should be happy. But when one person wants a serious relationship and the other does not, things do not go well. You have a choice between moving on and having a chance, albeit a small one, and going into a doomed situation.
Don't be weak and convince yourself things will work out. She's already telling you that she is not willing to give it her all, and any lasting relationship takes lots of work from both people.
2006-09-19 13:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by A S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else do you have? Whats the all fire hurry to have a steady? If you want to go out with her. Go. You have both grown up some. Maybe this time it will be more special. Loosen up and enjoy life.
2006-09-19 13:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't and don't want to wait for her, then you don't love her, and its time to move on and seek a gf elsewhere, When you love someone, you can wait forever and until the oceans run dry and never have the need for another. But you don't feel that way, and you don't love her. You are infatuated and in lust with her. Move on, and Blessed be................
2006-09-19 13:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start something and if you decide it's not worth waiting.. leave. She may change her mind or you may. In the beginning it's always casual anyways :)
With my man I didn't want anything serious but after being with him a short while I changed my mind, and knew it was the way to go with him :)
2006-09-19 13:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just be patient and treat her the way you treated her when you two were dating and hopefully that will show her how much she wants you back and she will want to be steady with you again..if you truely love her then you will wait for her...just be there and talk to her and listen when she has problems and she will gradually realize she wants you back...Good Luck!
2006-09-19 13:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow as friends and sooner or later it will develop in to healthly relationship. You should wait until she is ready...once she sees how charming you are and how much of a good friend you are....she's going to want to have you as a boyfriend.
2006-09-19 13:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Cheesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think maybe she needs some time to really settle down and get over her ex bf . just give her time only n only if deep down your heart u think u still love her. good luck
2006-09-19 13:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋