me and my girlfriend broke up and i dont have a boyfriend anymore...i'm so lost i want a gf or a bf but its hard to move on and i cant find either cuz i'm so shy...i really dont have any friends here at the school i'm going to cuz i just moved and so i wouldnt know of the single girls or guys...
2006-09-19 05:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by *~*~BABY GURL~*~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try to change, shy people are attractive!!!! Just be yourself and let time do it's thing. No-one ever gets what they want by trying too hard. Take a break from b/f g/f and relax. You don't have to search, someone will find you.
I wish you ALL the best.
Pete.
2006-09-19 05:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. Life is short and there are so many new, different and interesting people. Absence makes the memory go fonder, not just the heart. The way you remember the relationship isn't the same as the way it really was.
Write down all the good and bad qualities she had and make a note or journal entry to yourself about moving on and what you're looking for in a new person. Then start going to parties, barbeques, dances, sporting events, the art gallery, movies, etc. Get a part-time job if you don't have one and get a car or a bike. Go out and meet people. Do volunteer work, too. The time will fly, you will be happy again and you will forget about her.
2006-09-19 12:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by wife of Ali Pasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter your age or circumstances being shy can put a strain on the old nerves. My suggestion is to step out of your comfort zone for just a few minutes and just say "hi" to a stranger in school. Wearing a smile helps too. Also check out the different things to do, like clubs, teams etc.
That smile of yours will attract folks faster then you think.
2006-09-19 12:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just try standing alone for a while. Stop worrying about a boyfriend or girlfriend and just make friends.
2006-09-19 12:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow were going through the same thing but im not shy just be yourself and maybe online dating if your not scared of predators but just meet friends ask around you know.
2006-09-19 12:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Juana es Bonita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry im single gurl. n i wanna meat some1 2.
2006-09-19 12:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by 4U2NV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and be polite. Sooner or later you will meet people - guys and gals!
2006-09-19 12:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by making new friends
2006-09-19 12:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just seem so confuse i think you need help
2006-09-19 12:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight.
2006-09-19 12:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋