He and I broke up over a week ago, and he continues to call and text message me and ultimately harrass me. I've told him to stop but he won't. Should I block his cell number from my phone? I don't know how else to get away from him.
2006-09-19 05:46:49 · 31 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I say let him have be forceful but not crazy a person will back down if you stand up to them and let them know. Next time he calls tell him firmly without yelling it's over there is no purpose in him calling you and if he continues he will be talking to a voice mail and whatever you do if your truly done with him don,t engage him in anymore phone calls until he respects the fact you don't want to talk to him at this point. You can do it!
2006-09-19 05:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by yamimalikevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a little more than a week. I fu block his cell number he can easily call u from someplace else. Watch ur caller id and when someone u dont know calls dont answer. The question is are u afraid that he might become violent. If he hasnt shown any sign of harrassment. My friend Sarah dumped her ex over 3 months ago, he still calls, and trys to pretend to be someone else so that none of us will know it's him. He even sliedhis way into becoming "friends" with her current boyfriends best friends trying to turn them against him. Sarah filed for a restraining order but it was denied because he hadnt REALLY done anything wrong...best of luck 2 u
2006-09-19 13:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you can see, he won't stop annoying you unless you block his cell number from his phone or change your cell phone number. But by blocking his cell number he can call you from another phone number and harrass you again. So, if I were you I would change my cell phone number for sure. And this time, choose carefully to who will give your new number.
2006-09-19 12:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain with the next call or text message that you will be blocking his calls and refuse to do anything more with him. If he is to continue harassing you, you will be forced to take out a order of protection (if he has no clue as to what this is, tell him it means the next time he contacts you he will be in contempt and find himself in jail) Be safe as many women can tell you a order of protection does nothing and many people will ignore the order and try to see you. Hopefully he will stop after you tell him he is blocked and just stick to your guns and ignore him
2006-09-19 12:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Amy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block the number!
2006-09-19 12:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a stalker - but it's probably more that he is feeling desperate without you in his life. You might try blocking his number, but then he may just show up at your door. If it continues, you need to speak to your parents about it - or at the very least, your mother. She should be able to help you resolve this problem.
2006-09-19 12:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can block his number, do that, but if you can't...first tell him not to contact you anymore in any way, shape or form. Tell him that you consider his contact harassment and if he continues to contact you, you will have to pursue a legal remedy. If he then continues to harass you call the police and make a report. If it continues, talk to your police about getting a PPO against your boyfriend.
2006-09-19 12:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know if ur provider can block the number from a cell phone... simple solution, if ur sure it's over, change ur number... do a mass text to everyone u know with ur new number (u prob don't even talk to half the people in ur contacts anyway, no one does).. make sure to tell them DO NOT GIVE IT TO ANYONE.. and make sure no one he knows has it
2006-09-19 13:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try blocking his number, if this fails, then try getting a restraining order where he can not contact or come near you. He could be dangerous, so do not let this get out of hand.
2006-09-19 12:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block him, yes. You can always change your number. Or, if you really want, you can sue him for harassment (or atleast threaten it to him so he gets the idea).
You can't get a restraining order on him unless he threatens to hurt you or kill you, as long as he's not a threat, they won't care what he does.
2006-09-19 12:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋