this is about my x boyfriend of 2 years.
he dosen`t call he just shows up whenever he wants , and i just found out that he only comes around when he dosen`t have a grilfriend, he trends to come over or around between his girl friend it seems he only comes around when he dosen`t have a girlfriend.
when he gets a girlfriend i don`t see him or hear from him.
but when he breaks up with his girlfriend he starts coming around again.
i don`t want him back and i don`t understand why he only comes around between girl friends.
what should i tell him when he comes around.
2006-09-19 05:41:40 · 17 answers · asked by horses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he comes back i normally find something to do, with the horses or walk the dog, but then he sits in the yard and talks to family and friends whoever is around and my parents are freindly with him.
i`m moving out of my parnets house and hoping he dosen`t find out where i live.
2006-09-19 05:50:25 · update #1
I wouldn't tell him anything, and also I am sure there are still some feelings in you for him, so, i would just .... not answer the door..... after a few times, he will get the hint. And if he calls, tell him you have a bf now and that he can't be calling and coming around anymore. He will get the drift and go on to someone else. BLessed be.
2006-09-19 05:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he comes over tell him your fiance or your new man is over and you'll call him later. (never give him an exact time though). The only reason he keeps coming back is because you keep letting him in your life and your home. I hope your not giving him none of your "good girl" when he comes by, cause he think he can always come and get some. So stop him at the door and don't let him in.
2006-09-19 12:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetbabygurl318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say look buddy I dont like you I dont want anthing to do with you. If you cant approch him the "nice" way then tell him that if comes around you again you will file harrasement charges! Be serious. Keep to your word. That is harrasment girl. Dont mess with that! I should know Someone did that to me, but I didnt put up with it. You shouldnt either. Tell him to leave you be or else. You shouldnt have to explain yourself over and over again! It is not a treat it a warning and if yoru serious enough then he will get the message, but no matter how nice of a heart that you have you need to stick to your gun and tell him stright up!
2006-09-19 12:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by c_dilleynlancaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question, when he comes back around, what do you do?? If you keep goin back to him, in the sense of doing things, that why he keeps coming back because you let him. Just tell him you don't need a guy like him in your life. That you are living your life perfectly fine and don't want anything to do with him. You have control to keep him out of your life. If he comes back around, tell him to leave you alone.
2006-09-19 12:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doormats always get stepped on. Get up and stop putting up with being the "get over girl." As long as you make yourself available, he will continue to come around between girlfriends. Tell him to take a hike!
2006-09-19 12:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that enough is enough and to get lost, and to quit using you as a rebound. Just flat out go off on him, even if you think you can't do it, you will be able to do it once you've had enough. Or, open the door and say "whatta want" and if he says "oh...me and my girlfriend..." or whatever he says, just slam the door in his face. You'll feel great after you do it.
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2006-09-19 12:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop opening the door and letting him in. If you don't want him back then tell him so and let him know that you are not a "fill in" until he finds someone else ! Keep life simple and tell him like it is.
2006-09-19 12:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by kimpierce76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST! Don't put off to long of not telling him. You would probably want to know if he was thinking that way about you... so just tell him and be VERY honest! Tell him you are worth more than how he is treating you... Don't let a guy make you feel that way!
2006-09-19 12:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't understand? it's a booty call girl! don't let him use you like that, someone to fill in while he looks for his next GF. it's obvious he doesnt want to be friends coz if he did, you would still see him even if he had a GF. tell him straight, you don't want him coming around you GF or not. he'll get the picture.
2006-09-19 12:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to STOP coming around... don't let him hang around you. Stop talking to him. You're as much at fault for him showing up as he is. You need to let him know you don't want anything to do with him.
2006-09-19 12:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋