How do i know when its time to let someone go and move on ? I dont want to but it seems like the right thing ...but i want to know what everyones opinion is 1st ok thanks.
2006-09-19 05:37:34 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you think its time. No one else can tell you what's going on in the relationship or how you feel. Letting go is a hard thing to do and thats why a lot of peole dont' want to, but if it feels right to you, that's what you have to do. Go with your gut feeling. Good luck.
2006-09-19 05:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is different for everyone but, there is one thing that never changes and that is when your heart tells you, see there is always that feeling "Is this the right thing to do" "What if I am making a great mistake" "What if I never love again"
Those are just some of the things that we ask ourselves when there is doubt in our relationship,
Ask yourself these few questions before you decide anything okay:
When you are thinking about your guy do your heart skip a beat or beat a little faster?
When you know he is about to call you, do you sit and wait by the phone, or everytime the phone ring you get a little happier?
When you think of not being with him, you get all sick, inside, can't eat anything, or even sleep at nite?
When you see him from across the room, do you feel like a school girl all over again?
See if you still have any of these feelings then you should rethink it all, but:
If when you see him with other females, do you not care? it do not bother you when you don't hear from him, for days out?
Do you all fight about any and everything all the time no matter what?
Do you see other guys and your boyfriend do not enter your thoughts anymore?
Do you even ignore his calls sometimes, acting like you did not hear the phone ring when you was looking right at it?
If you feel like this then I am more than sure it's time to move on.
You can base how you feel about your relationship on how others may deal with theirs, you have to do what is right for you and not for another............I hope things come out okay for you in the end okay good luck..............
2006-09-19 05:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something in your heart will tell you. Letting go can be really hard, even though somewhere inside of you, you know things just aren't as they should be. How long have you two been together ? You have to ask yourself would you be happier, more content without him or with him ? I've been in relationships and stayed because it was easier than letting go, but I wish I'd let go looking back. Some times we stay because we don't want to be alone, but staying for any thing other than love, trust,caring and companionship is throwing away your life, good luck.
2006-09-19 05:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by aviatorannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your heart and your instinct give you the signal. You can really feel the frictions in your relationship, then it's time to let your special someone go and you will move on. It's a very painful step, but one must do what one has to do. I am so sorry for this period of your life right now. Good luck and be strong !!!!!
2006-09-19 05:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me the first time I woke up in a puddle of blood the second time I saw him kissing another woman the third time I was having a fierce affair with the mailman after that I lost count I'm now a free agent sooooo I can pretty much do what ever I want to. Like BB King says the "Thrill is gone" you will know you'll feel it in your heart.
2006-09-19 05:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're done, it won't even be a question. When you're in your "I'm done" phase, there's nothing he can say or do that will convince you to stay. You'll be calmer than you've ever been, you won't yell or scream and it'll scare the doodoo out of him. By your question, it sounds like you're trying to talk yourself into something you really don't want to do. Let the relationship run it's course. You'll know without question when you've really done the right thing. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 05:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you let the person go if one or tte other is not happy anymore. Both grow and evolve and if you dont find that together or find that you dont persue the same project, you better go foward the special thing and magic that you want to have. If the other person is in love with you but you can not feel to give it back, let your pair be free and find someone that makes him really happy.At least ithink everyone deserve to be love, so let him go to help him and you to find it.
And the same for you, be with someone you can be happy and faaaaall compeltely in love.
good luck.
2006-09-19 05:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Khaus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time to let someone go is when they are treating you bad and ignoring all of your phone calls, when youare getting mentally and physically abrused, when you find yourseld stressind, losing weight, and losing hair over someone, and even when you find yourself giving out all the love and getting nothing in return. I really dont know youe situation but I hope this answer could help! Good luck:)
2006-09-19 05:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about a loved one or a friend your letting go of you must listen to God. He will tell you were to go and who your friends will be. I JUST moves from Ca. to Texas and I have already made so many friends. Im only 13 and trust me, When your ready to move on... God will be there with you helping you along through your tough times. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-19 05:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone says when your heart tells you! I dont want to let go of my ex but it was the right thing for me to do and now im much happier!! SO go with what you feel and your heart tells you!
2006-09-19 05:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋