I feel as if my bf is stalking me!He calls and txts me non stop and doesn't give me any space!For example, in the morning he called me twice.Then he called from a public pay phone so I didn't pick up because the number was unknown. After he called me in my home and my mom picked up and she told him that I'd call him on his cell. I did and we had a normal conversation. Well, after an hour he called AGAIN! My mom was surprised and she lied (thankfully) and said that I am not there. She then confronted me and said What is his problem? What does he want,he called you an hour ago? When I checked my phone he had called me 4 times: 5:53,5:54,5:58,6:00! I went out for an hour and I had two more missed calls from him! I have now turned my phone off and I am thinking of sending him a message 'I am at a movie with my friend,so I have to keep my phone off. See you tomorrow.' (because unfortunetly I am going to have to see him at school tomorrow) Ideas,anything HELP!
2006-09-19 05:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a few friends go and beat him up if he doesn't leave you alone.I'd do it myself for you but you probably don't live in New York.
2006-09-19 05:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should warn him to stop acting obsessive. If he ignores you; warn him again. After that, your parents should talk to his parents.
You have to be up front with him too and tell him you need your space. By ignoring him, you are ignoring the problem which gives him reason to continue to call you because he is worried about you.
You need to bring this all out in the open and he has to understand that his constant monitoring of you makes you feel uncomfortable.
Stop being overly passive and have the talk with him so that he can be taught how to be your boyfriend without stepping over your need for space.
2006-09-19 05:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the phone company and get the number changed and then contact your police dept and get a restraining order .Also go to your school and let them know he is stalking you . This is very scary to me because my daughter went through this . Have your mom on the lookout too. And if this continues go to the state attorneys office. That is what they are there for . Good Luck .
2006-09-19 05:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off your phone was a step in the right way! Confront him! He has called you 10 times. That is insane. If your mom already knows, I'd get her to speak to him or his parents about his behavior! Or you can do it yourself. Say something like, It is okay to call someone once or twice, but 10 times, please I need some space.
2006-09-19 05:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him that you need some space, your getting to be more like a stalker than a boyfriend if it doesn't stop, then this relationship is over and I think your a nice guy, but too much is too much! Good Luck!
2006-09-19 05:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful sweety! This guy sounds like he is very uncomfortably insecure with himself. If read articles in magazines about these kind of guys. I've saved it for my daughter if she ever comes across a guy like that. You should consider looking elsewhere for a bf. You still live with your folks? You didn't say how old you were, so I'm guessing you still live at home.
2006-09-19 05:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you would like to remain friends but that you need your space-If you are going steady with him break it off!!
2006-09-19 05:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it.
try talking to him about the calling tell him not to call so much.
and if he keeps stalking u then seek help from your mom.
good luck
2006-09-19 05:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it coz it wudnt b fair to end it without trying to save the relationsip. then if he still doesnt change you should do something about it if hes really annoying you which i take it he is at the minute.......
good luck =)
2006-09-19 05:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that sucks.
well just stay as far away from him as possible and ask your friends to help you. :)
2006-09-19 05:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋