OK, my BF and I have been dating for a long time and finally decided that we are curious and would like to let each other have carte blanche with each other (except no sex but we will have protection just in case). First I would like to know, would I enjoy seeing his ......... and what is the best way (erect or other). Second what are somethings I might enjoy doing with his ........ and with him if we both have everything off. Third, I would just like to hear from anyone what it was like the first time they tried this (details because I may try what you did).
2006-09-19 05:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? Don't you need to be doing your homework or watching Sesame Street or something? Come on - if you have to ask this type of question then you have NO business contemplating having sex with anyone, whether or not you have been dating for a long time. What's a long time to you, anyway, 3 or 4 weeks? Wait until you are old enough to handle intimacy & try again when you've gained some maturity, please.
2006-09-19 06:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you would enjoy seeing him naked. Erect is better. If you're not going to have sex, you could jerk him off (stroke his penis up and down really fast using lubrication), or you can have oral sex with him (using your mouth). Just be sure you don't use your teeth and you go slowing in and out. So, you could just play with each other, you can dry hump (with your clothes on), and have oral sex ( mutually).
If you do decide to have sex, not only should you use a condom, you should use another form of birth control because condom's can break. Good luck and have fun!!
2006-09-19 12:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound a little young to be worrying about this. Curiousity is natural, and you will have to see what you like. Wait until your sure before you have sex, it could change your life forever. Condoms don't always work.
2006-09-19 12:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Becky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Such childish activities are usually done by 8-9 year old or younger when they play doctor. I would advise you first to chat with your mother, she is most like your biggest friend and fan.
2006-09-19 12:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are past 20 and asking this question, then the world has gone to s'hit, and it is terrible news....
otherwise, just go ahead and bloody have sex or don't. what the hell is with carte blanche.
2006-09-19 12:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i did everything...like sucked, played and fu**ed..haha its all great and fun..so try that stuff if u want..thats the order i did those things in..oh and the first time u f**k it hurts and dont go down too far when u suck..haha ull choke
2006-09-19 12:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ginny M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah - right!
2006-09-19 12:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋