There is this girl that I REALLY like... How do I know if she does or doesnt feel that same way about me?
And I'm afraid to tell her how I feel because I'm good friends with her parents and little brother... I just think if I tell her, it could mess everything up.......
Help me please.
2006-09-19 05:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she likes u if...
when she is with u:
she smiles a lot
laughs at everything u say
try and make casual conversation bout everything and keeps the convo going
flirts with u
touches ur arm or hand or something
plays with her hair, earing or eyebrows or jewelery etc a lot
looks at u straight in the eye
if ur in a group or something, ur the only one she talks to, or the one that she talks to the most
doesnt like u if:
she tries to avoid talking to u
is very calm and doesnt smile or flirt with u
keeps a distance when ur talking
she doesnt talk as much with u as she does with other people...
i mean these are just normal signs but it differs for every person
if u have a positvie feeling about it then go tell her
and if she says no, her loss and at least u know her answer
try not to think of her family. u said u realllly like her so u being good friends with her brother and parents is good, at least u wont have to fear the family. and if she does say no, hopefully shell have the decency to keep it to herself..it might be weird for the brother tho. i woud feel so weird if my sister went out with one of my friends..thats unavoidable
2006-09-19 05:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can feel for you totally. The only way to know for sure is to be able to read her mind...but no, you can't.
So it is just about time and patience at this point. Try to be around her as much as possible. You have to wait for her cues.
There will be verbal and non verbal cues. Like if she compliments you alot, is interested in what you are doing. Does a bit of primping of her appearance when you are around.
Also it is something in the eyes and how she looks at you. Weigh the consequences and how uncomfortable it would be if you told her vs. waiting.
If the results of telling wouldn't be that bad jump in, try asking her. But if your concerned, waite for the cues...you WILL see them.
2006-09-19 05:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to hint at her bro and parents to see how they react if you bring it up. if they seem ok with it, just tell her. she may or may not say no. dont be embarrased if she does and dont let it mess up your relationship with the rest of the fam.. good luck
2006-09-19 05:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes girls will be flirty or maybe you should ask her brother isf he knows anything if he says no just go to the source. the one thing to take in to mind is will you regret it
2006-09-19 05:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u 2 r really good friends...this shouldnt mess things up...it never hurts to just ask...GOODLUCK
2006-09-19 05:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured nothing gained
2006-09-19 05:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you say something.
2006-09-19 05:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋