i changed everything about me like my style the music i listen to and everything even my screensave!! what do i do to get him
2006-09-19 05:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by se_rocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Hope your friendship with the "bff" isn't all that great because trying to steal the guy from her is going to kill that friendship
2) Why have you changed so much about yourself?
There isn't a person in this world that is worth changing who you are!
2006-09-19 05:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl as another person whom is also in this situation. What I've learned is just let him go no matter what. I alson changed everything. Then he calls and told me the world worst news ever no he has no STD. Worse he got my BFF friend pg. I'm so poed that I can't even talk to him right now. Hold on my cell is ringing. Crude it's him. Next he'll call me at work and I won't answer him. I moved on and I think there are more good guys in this world than bad guys. OOPS again hold on my line is ringing. It was him I hung up on him. nutin you can do to get him. l hope you understand people are in a situation like yours everyday.
2006-09-19 05:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go. What you want to be with man that you must change for him to accept. You are a woman, he is suppose to change himself just so he could talk to you, if you understand what i am saying. Not mention what kind of bf would that make you. Leave the man alone. Move on love. There are better fish in the sea and plenty of them.
2006-09-19 05:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you changed for him then kinda shame on you, If he doesn't love you for who you are then you are better off without him. I know that sounds dumb but it's true.
Also, if he wants your friend 2 things. 1. No one should ever really date a bff's ex. 2. If he doesn't care about you like you deserve get rid of him.
2006-09-19 05:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant change his mind for him..you shouldnt want to hurt your friend..i am not tryin to hurt your feelings but...boys may come and go, but friends are 4ever..dont ever let that leave your mind because your friend has probably been there for you..you need to be there for her...i hope you understand..that right now is the time to keep your friends on your mind...boys will be there wishing they had you...much love me
2006-09-19 05:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by green_skittle1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't have a man who love ssomeone else cause once he loves someone else and it isnt you you have no chance to get him. so you might as well give up or tell him you love him and see what happens. but other wise just have him in your life as a friend because that is better then not having him in your life a all...
2006-09-19 05:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the thing if you have to change who you are he's not the right one for you,if you want to find the right guy be yourself and you'll be a lot happier.
2006-09-19 05:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to change yourself for him, he probably does not deserve you. To really like someone is to accept her as who she is.
2006-09-19 05:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by n707jt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too re-invent yourself to be pleasing to a man is one of the biggest disservice you can do to yourself....perhaps you can just make it a threesome and you can all win...or more realistically you could back off and find someone who can return your feelings
2006-09-19 05:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear,
You should never change yourself for any man, especially one who doesn't even love you.. Move on...find someone who will appreciate you...
2006-09-19 05:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋