we're at our first year of college and we've been together for 3 years of high school. all throughout high school, he made friends with girls and i never stopped him from doing so, no matter how bothersome it was at times. in hs, i never had any close guy friends, and at college i would like to make friends with guys without my boyfriend telling me not to and getting angry...but hes still as jealous as he was in high school, and we fight alot about this. i think he's being a little unfair to me especially when he has friends that are girls in college. am i right? anything i can do? can it still work?
2006-09-19 05:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by sugar56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason he doesn't want you to have guy friends is because most guys can not be trusted and he may not truat you to be around them without things happening between you and the guys or the guys and you.that right thereis noit a good realtionship in order for him to trust you he has to see that they wont be trying to have sex with you or whatever ok...
2006-09-19 05:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the worst thing that can be in a relashinonship..Jelousey you need to tell him straight up if u dont have trust you dont have nothing...He must feel really jelouse eaither cause he doesnt trust you or he doesnt feel good about him self in ways.... you need to talk to him and tell him What u feel and that these fights aint right and that you want to have other friends.
2006-09-19 07:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by New Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people are exactly right. Most guys are animals and they have no respect for your boyfriend. The friend angle is one we play quite often. Your "friend" may not be physically attracted to him, but he is probably to you. Women are capable of the same thing, but it doesn't happen nearly as often.
I can't think of one attractive girl "friend" I had that I wasn't playing that angle...
2006-09-19 05:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by hellfirsthand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah ...but keep in mind ...most guys don't want to be just friends..it may come off that way..but ..its only a matter of time before they go in for the kill......NOT in all cases though...just most of them.
Its just all about both parties and what they allow to reveal to the so called friends. I wouldn't recommend being "friends" with someone you are attracted to, this goes for both parties...good luck ...let the chips fall were they may.
2006-09-19 05:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋