My boyfriend and I are always staying at his place, which is fine honestly except that it's a 45 min drive for me in the morning when i live 5 min away from my work and he doesn't work in the mornings...
I want him to start staying at my place a little more often so I don't have to get up as early and make the drive in rush hour.
Problem he has decent reasons for us to be at his place. He's diabetic and so it's easier for him to take his shots at home, doesnt want to leave his dog alone (not always well behaved) and he gets car sick, and i have a roommate and he's alone...
Any ideas for me to use besides i'm tired of the drive and something stupid like 'if you love me' because i hate that.
I want a compromise.
2006-09-19 05:01:46 · 9 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh also.. my roommate is my ex. we're still friends but sometimes my boyfriend feels a little uncomfortable around him (as you can assume) like he's in his territory.
2006-09-19 05:03:05 · update #1
He can take his shots at your place. That's not too much to ask. And his dog can remain alone for a night or two. Just tell your boyfriend he needs to let up a little so everyone can be happy.
2006-09-19 05:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your place seems to be totally uncomfortable for your boyfriend and for your relationship (doesnt it feel weird with ex always around you?).
Why dont you both consider living together. Find any apartment between your job and his. Might work if you have nothing against dogs.
2006-09-19 12:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Magnetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to him about maybe alternating between your place and his place. That way you are not having to get up early all the time. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 12:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a roommate and u would leave them alone when u go to work. That would be very uncomfertable. Maybe he is trying to respect you, but not being there alone with her.
2006-09-19 12:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new roomate. there's no way my boyfriend would stay over with me and my ex.
2006-09-19 12:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your roommate is your EX?? well bingo -you just answered your own question!
2006-09-19 12:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a new roomate
2006-09-19 12:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
scout around for a sametype/cost place nearer you, so he will be comfortable, but then is nearer as well......?
2006-09-19 12:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE IN TOGETHER ?
2006-09-19 12:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by JUST ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋