any ideas?
also, what is your personal story?
2006-09-19 04:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The sweetest way is when it's completely unexpected, do whatever you would normally do on a date and then when you think the perfect time is, look them in the eyes and just say I love you.
I can remember everything about the first time my now ex told me he loved me. He had just started a new job and was working evenings, he got off work at about midnight and he always called me to talk on his way home. I was already in bed cuddled up in my pajamas listening to him ramble on about his day. Suddenly he stopped talking and said "hey, I have something important to tell you." So I asked him what it was and he said "I love you. You're the only thing I have been able to think about for days, and it suddenly hit me that it's because I'm in love with you."
2006-09-19 05:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by GoodJob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'll tell you my story! I had been going out with my boyfriend and soulmate Tony for a little over 2 weeks when it happened. I was on his laptop in his room and he was sleeping on his bed. As I watched him sleep (as people in love will understand why!), he slowly opened his eyes and turned his head to look at me. He then smiled and whispered: 'I love you.' My heart was beating so fast I couldn't even feel it because I was so incredibly overwhelmed! Then he went back to sleep. When he woke up and I said 'I love you too', he got really confused. Turned out he didn't even remember that he said it! But he argues now that he obviously loves me very much because he said it when he was asleep! Doesn't really matter because I love him and he loves me!
I guess what would be a really great time, is just when it's the two of you, quiet and you just look into his eyes and say it. It's really beautiful any other way.
2006-09-19 12:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is key. Whoever said eyes mirror the soul wasn't kidding. Even if you are sitting down to a lunch at McDonald's with a dozen screaming brats behind you on the jungle gym, it'll be a special moment if you look your sweetie in the eyes while saying it, because it will feel so very sincere.
My personal story is too darned cute - I met my husband online, and at some point I finally broke down and "said" I loved him. A year later, the relationship had progressed a bit, and he called and told me Happy Anniversary. It had been a big enough deal for him that he'd made note of the day it happened and wanted to celebrate it. And he *still* considers it a special day for us. (January 30th, because I know you're curious.)
2006-09-19 12:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since in an earlier question you asked if it's OK to trick your boyfriend into getting you pregnant how about telling him he's going to be a father again and you made the choice for him. That oughtta do it!
2006-09-19 13:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ideas but I will share my story
I got really dressed up for him on just a normal day...he had told me he loved me earlier and I really wanted to tell him. When he laughing over the fact that I was dressed up for no reason I just blurted the words out and he said them back. Magic! lol
2006-09-19 11:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel it the most , and ur heart calls it ,u feel that every single part of u is saying it caring not about the consequences,this time this very moment interrupt any other thing and whisper it to ur love(in the left ear close to his heart)
2006-09-19 12:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by melody fay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I were watching a movie (Finding Neverland, I will never forget) and he paused it and said "you know what? I love you". It was great, I'm so silly that I cried a couple of tears before managing to say "I love you too"
2006-09-19 11:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A card or flowers then saying it. Maybe over dinner or in the privacy of ones home. Good luck!
2006-09-19 11:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends got into a fight w/ her b/f one night and she told him just to leave and he told her he couldnt and she said y not he said b/c i love u. I thought that was really sweet but its ur choice.
2006-09-19 18:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by kdm_jpm06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a really good movie, cozy up to him/her and whisper the words into their ear.
2006-09-19 11:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Lone Eagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋