What really makes men come on so strong after first meeting, and then stop calling a few weeks into hanging out - even if you 2 had the best times hanging out together, and nothing happened? I've never understood this...
2006-09-19 04:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the newness wares off, he meets someone else, reconnects w/ an ex, got laid and is no longer interested, didn't get laid and lost interest, men are just freakin weird when it comes to the way they handle the opposite sex...but...in all fairness women have a tendancy to play the same games with just as twisted motives
2006-09-19 04:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the 2 best times hanging out together. He was just trying to get laid. The only reason a guy takes you out is because he wants to sleep with you. Why else would a perfect stranger want to buy you dinner? If he just wanted company he could hang out with his friends.
You didn't put out so he found someone who would.
2006-09-19 04:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds manipulative and he sounds like a user. Just consider it a lesson learned and go on. You will find someone decent. After running into a few of these, I found a good one. It can happen.
2006-09-19 04:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, ive never understood that either...but if they havent called in like a week, send them a text or call them and just start up a casual convo then see what happens after that
2006-09-19 04:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be trying to see if you like him. By not calling he figures that if you do not call him then you are not interested in him and if you do call that means that there is a good Chance for a great relationship, because the communication is gowning both ways.If you really like him then call or write!
2006-09-19 05:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are in it for the thrill of the chase. If you want to hold a man's attention, don't show them any attention and let them know you have other male friends.
2006-09-19 04:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it could be that , he decided you werent the one he wanted after all. maybe he found someone he liked, and wanted to date her. i dont really know but isnt it better that you found out now before you got 2 attached, this could of saved you some serious heart ache. i hope you find the boy thats right for you .
2006-09-19 04:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy that I had good times with but i wasn't ready to have sex and since he couldn't respect that he stopped calling
2006-09-19 06:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men are just trying to get into you pants.
2006-09-19 04:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by exodus64_1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me either. I think this is every girls question. However some guys just want u know what.
2006-09-19 04:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋