Shouldnt it? Why else would she accept the offer? And if she doesnt go home with you, is that down right disrespectful?
2006-09-19 04:36:11 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no= not fair
2006-09-19 04:38:33 · update #1
It does work alot of the time, but it should be 100%
2006-09-19 04:41:58 · update #2
If *I* do, yes. If *you* do, I can't say. I guess it depends on you.
2006-09-19 04:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Joe B 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the girl. But generally speaking it could lead into a friendship, but not sex! Try something else besides buying drinks and spending money like that. Buy the way paying a prostitute guarantees sex and I bet it's cheaper than buying ten drinks a day!lol
2006-09-19 04:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by niceguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bartender and i have to tell you that most of the women i have come in aren't looking to have sex. in this day it's not safe to go pick up a random person and jump in the sack. 20 years a go was different. if all you are looking for is sex it's going to take more then a drink. you need to talk to her (and really listen to her) and don't play games. most girls in the bar can see them from a mile away, and if she can't, the female bartender WILL point it out. accepting a drink just gives you the OK it talk. if you think that obligates more then you must be VERY young.
2006-09-19 04:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by skinni mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you have guaranteed is that she got a drink and you got to spend money. You havent even guaranteed that you will get to talk to her. It sounds like you would be the kind of guy that is ignorant to a girl when you open your mouth, and that is why you got shot down. If you want to pay for sex, hire a pro, but even then there is no guarantee.
2006-09-19 04:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You offered she accepted probably because she felt bad for you because if you talk like you type these arrogant questions then hell you should've bought the bar. no ,it does not mean you getting some it means jack go home and jack off and lay in the result of it and think about how to be a true gentleman hell you probably would've got some if you bought more than one drink . OKay.
2006-09-19 04:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by mrsoliviawilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so no to free drinks? So if a girl accepts, it just means that she welcomes the free drink. Period.
If she refuses the free drink, you must be downright ugly or sleazy looking, like a serial rapist.
She does not have to go home with you just because you paid a few bucks for a drink. Come on, she can pay for her own drinks too! Right? In fact, it is disrespectful to EXPECT a girl to go home with you for just a few bucks. Nobody is obligated to do that.
2006-09-19 04:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone came up to you and offered you $5 bucks with no strings attached would you take it? Sure you would. And that's how most girls view you buying them a drink. Whether or not you buy her a drink, she's going home with who she wants to.
Save your money and just go over and talk to her. Most girls aren't cheap enough to sleep with a guy just for the price of a drink.
2006-09-19 04:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that most women would value themselves at a much higher price than a drink. How about conversation, getting to know someone, spending time together, etc.? If u just want a quick lay then u should find a hooker. But if you're trying to meet a nice young lady, she is not going home with you after one drink.
2006-09-19 04:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is but women are born teasers, I should know, I am one. It's really not that easy. When I go out with a group of gals, almost all of them get like 4-8 drinks a night from different guys, rarely do they result in anything other than a polite thank you, and maybe a short conversation.
2006-09-19 04:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow....so you think a $5 drink is going to get you laid?!?!? You can't even get a hooker for that. Get real.....don't offer to buy a girl a drink if you don't want to.....we don't really care if you do or don't. But don't think that by doing that you just bought a ticket into her panties because it just doesn't work that way.
2006-09-19 04:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by vickyc76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that any self respecting girl would think of a drink offer as an opener to get to know eachother. I don't think that if she accepts that it means she wants to have sex with you. It's more of an ice breaker. It lets her know that you are interested, you think she is attractive.
2006-09-19 04:42:19 · answer #11 · answered by Monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋