What I am not understanding is why tell me the truth after all those months of lying to me.
2006-09-19 04:23:18 · 13 answers · asked by Fallen Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I am not understanding is why tell me the truth after all those months of lying to me. Then he asked me "Where do we go from here?" He said, he wanted to come home with me and that he knew that he broke that trust and that if it took the rest of his life to prove to me that I could once again trust him he would do that because he said he loved me. I would have never found out about any of these lies and I can't help but wonder if he told me because he was deploying to Iraq. I am so lost and I don't know wha to believe anymore.
2006-09-19 04:44:31 · update #1
that happened to me... that means that he really loves u and couldnt keep his secrects from u any more cause they were eating away at him! that is good that he told u.. but i would leave him now cuz once a liar, always a liar!
2006-09-19 04:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was probably eating him up inside. It shows he cares about you and your feelings enough to be real with you and come clean. I don't know what he lied about but maybe you should evaluate things. remember you can forgive him and stay or you can forgive him and leave. Just don't hold grudges, cause you'll just hurt yourself in the long run
2006-09-19 04:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Grace1908 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is no longer suitable that he advised you presently or 3 months in the past. the factor his he felt the could loose his sense of right and incorrect. Being interior the militia demands submersion in that way of life. you could not be distracted by making use of subjects at abode. for sure this grew to become into bothering him. think of approximately it, if he did no longer inform you and you found out on an identical time as he grew to become into long previous (and you will have finally found out, have confidence me) how would you be waiting to handle it without him there to chat to? permit him pass to Iraq understanding you nonetheless love him, it incredibly is all he needs. while he gets decrease back he would be a distinctive guy, then you definately can initiate your dating over. Get to be responsive to the recent each and each-different, given which you would be older and extra mature too. discover ways to have confidence him back. for sure he cares approximately you by way of fact he does no longer have been so afflicted by making use of the guilt. in step with everybody that asserts "he advised you so he would have somebody waiting for him while he gets decrease back" for sure thats no longer actual. Had he no longer advised her, she does no longer be thinking whether or to no longer stay with him. She would be with him while he left by way of fact she on no account would have primary.
2016-10-01 03:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conscience is eating away at him. Maybe he's truly sorry for whatever he did and he's trying to repent his actions to you. Either it's that he's asking for forgiveness........or he's just trying to get it off his chest and that he's ready to move on with his life......and he feels you deserve to know.
2006-09-19 04:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on what it is he was hiding from you...it was either eating his conscious away....or he realized that you would find out from someone else very shortly so he thought he'd be the one to tell you first so he'd be in a little less trouble
2006-09-19 04:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between a "no those jeans don't make your butt look fat" lie and a serious lie. If it was a serious lie who cares why now. He's a liar and has violated your trust.
2006-09-19 04:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he couldnt take lieing to you anymore. maybe he just wanted to let it out and tell you the truth. at least he told you the truth now and himself. not you figuring it out or being told by someone else.
2006-09-19 04:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Possibly trying to get *you* to break off w/ him, instead of vice versa.
Remember, lying seems to be quite natural for him, obviously... & he'll keep on & on & on...
2006-09-19 04:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by coffeepleasenosugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he is feeling guilty and wants to unload it to feel better and hoping you would understand because you love him.
2006-09-19 04:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by (◕‿◕✿) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he realized what he was doing was both destructive and corrosive.
The next step is yours.
2006-09-19 04:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋