I know wedding days are exhausting, but should you bring extra stuff to spice up the night, or just do the 'natural' things and go to sleep!??
2006-09-19 04:22:07 · 22 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Oh honey.... the whole point of a wedding night is to consamate the wedding.... and you both know it... go prepared... there's the rest of your life to sleep... wedding night sex only happens once in a marriage though!!
2006-09-19 04:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez, maybe I'm old fashion............but I've always thought the "wedding night" was a night to consamate the marriage.
Why not bring the toys and creams out the following night or even later down the road when the two of you NEED the spiceing up!
2006-09-19 04:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not do both? Have the first round as nature intended, then take a break. Have the wild sex in a second round with the added spice. There is no reason you can only have one round of sex on your wedding night. Trust me, your energy level will be fine :-)
2006-09-19 10:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can bit a girl scout and always be prepared but don't be disappointed if you don't use them. From what all my friends tell me they are almost too pooped to consumate the marriage on their wedding night depending on the intensity of the wedding and reception. Maybe this is why it's good to have weddings in the mid day.
2006-09-19 04:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lets assume your having a real honeymoon......by all means bring stuff. Its probably more important to not attempt it the first night if you've partied like there is no tomorrow.........which is perfectly legit considering it is the most expensive party you will ever throw. I think its better to spend the entire next day making love......than to be disappointed in the performance....
Think of it this way.....who wouldn't go for a nice massage after a wedding.......you know your feet will be killing you, what if he started rubbing them.....little massage oil.....working up your calves....get the idea????? Have a blast, and congrats.
2006-09-19 04:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and pack your toys. They will be there if you deceide you want to "spice" up the night. If you don't use them, no harm done. If you feel you may be to exhausted, pack a couple energy drinks. You only have one wedding night. Maybe you could check out a few new positions or Kama Sutra and suprise him. Have Fun!
2006-09-19 04:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin my wedding night so we went natural and we were so tired anyways that we had a magical night and then went to sleep!!!
But if you have had sex with your fiance then I would say go for it. It would spice things up a little bit!!!
2006-09-19 06:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin on your wedding night, just let nature take its course and enjoy.
If you aren't, then what's the difference? A wedding night would just be any other night to a couple who have already been intimate. So let personal choice dictate what you do.
2006-09-19 04:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you're up for chica - remember your wedding night sex only happens once in a marriage so who cares if you're tired? All the work is over, all the people are gone, now it's time for you are your man to have some play time! Have fun!
2006-09-19 04:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Angelina 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey nowadays anything goes. It really depends on you mood and his. The best way would be to talk about it beforehand. That way you can get an idea of what he likes and you can share with him what you like. Heck if anything you would both be happy because the best part of it is your both together and even if you only made love once then both fell asleep, as long as you both were happy that is really all that matters.
2006-09-19 04:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋