i.e. i have been with him a month and am head over heels in love with him, and i think he feels the same (!?) but not sure i should tell him yet??!!!
2006-09-19 04:20:12 · 19 answers · asked by seaflight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, it is great you are so happy and in love, it is the best feeling. I think don't tell him, not yet, it might scare him, let him pluck up the courage to tell you. Instead show him you love him by being good fun and happy and great to be around. I made the mistake, when i was younger with my first love, of being too moany and insecure and crying... oh how dull i must have been.. never be like that. Enjoy feeling loved up.
2006-09-19 04:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think my bf would be a little scared if i told him my true feelings, we've been together 3 months. However, cos of a slip of the tongue i told him i love him but them quickly said it was a figure of speech!
He knows how i feel and he feels the same but i've decided that when he's back off hols end of month, i'm gonna tell him that i love him!!!
In answer to your question, perhaps 1 month is too soon and if he dont feel the same in depth feelings as you, you could end up losing him!
Very difficult situation!!
If you do tell him, chose a special moment!
2006-09-19 04:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait 3-6 months. You don't want to say something you regret later. I'm basing 3-6 cuz that's when relationship start going down the tubes. Good luck.
2006-09-19 04:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you say how you feel I never understand why people wait or hide how they feel if its a natural thing and not forced then say it. I have been with the person I'm with for about two months and I told her two weeks in. just say it
2006-09-19 04:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my gf I loved her after 2 months
2006-09-19 04:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how u feel that way if he feels the same u know where you stand and if he doesnt then you know not not to waste ur time and getting ur hopes up xx hope that helps good luck
2006-09-19 04:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by REBEKAH O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what you feel - don't keep it in. You should be up front and honest about your feelings. Chances are he's feeling the same way.
2006-09-19 04:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..whenever it feels right. I recently had the same situation and we both felt the same, but i was afraid to say it first..so just say it and see what he says
2006-09-19 04:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by brydy23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are easilly freaked so i'd wait for another two or three weeks - if you say it too soon you could send him heading for the hills
2006-09-19 04:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kerri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel the time is right. Sounds corny, but you will know!
2006-09-19 04:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋