It's so annoying and makes a guy feel like he's always on trial...WTF!!!?? Are you that insecure?
2006-09-19 04:13:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we sometimes feel insecure and have to be reminded that someone cares.
Blame it on those evil hormones that us women have to live with
2006-09-19 04:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by helpme1 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well this is a giant generalization, so let me attempt to answer you in a different way...
If it's your experience that all the women you have dated are like this, then maybe there is a flaw in yourself. Do you choose women with low self esteem unconciously? Perhaps you could try reading a few books on the subject of relationships and health and try finding someone new.
If it is just one woman you are talking about here, the person currently in your life then sure, maybe she is insecure and it is her own life issues. If you really like her and think she has qualities that would make her worth sticking with, try being just a little more understanding. Conciously do something once or twice a week to SHOW her you love her - doesn't have to be big or flashy like flowers or dinner out, just little things like a note on her dresser in the morning or unpacking the groceries when she gets home late from work..
2006-09-19 11:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Behhar B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls/women do. Seems like you need to start looking for another type of personality than what you presently are attracted to. Apparently, some ARE that insecure, just like SOME men who need to control and dominate a woman. good luck!
2006-09-19 11:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a life and get off your high horse because that's definitely wrong. Maybe this applies to you, but it sure doesn't apply to every other male. I don't need my sweetie to tell me he loves me constantly but he does it anyway because it's something he really wants to do from his heart. Obviously you don't have a very serious love with someone because if you did you would understand how two people feel when they are in-love with someone special. It's all about actions that tell someone you love them more than anything, but I don't see what's wrong with saying I love you all the time. Besides I know plenty of men that want their woman to tell them they love them more than once a day. Grow up and try getting some tips from real men.
2006-09-19 11:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because guys are so insensitive to hear the words I Love means more to a woman than a man will ever know. It not only means that u love the person it means that you are go to protect them with everything you have.
2006-09-19 11:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a married woman and don't have to be told by my husband I love you all the time the girls your talking about are just really insecure.
2006-09-19 11:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if a guy really loves a girl then he wont mind telling her he loves her at least once a day..dont you like hearing it.?if not then you're the one that is insecure of your relationship and you need to think about it. has nothing to do with insecurity.its just nice to hear.hubby tells me he loves at least twice a day and has for 25 yrs.and by the way he doesnt have to.he WANTS to and i dont have to hear it either cause i know he does...
2006-09-19 11:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by solsbj 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am i girl and i hate to be told all the time taht i love you once a day is good ! but some girls like it but why do you wont to her that all the time that means you dont think taht person loves you if you have to hear it all the time. But if some say i love you you dont have to answer it back because it is not a question.
2006-09-19 11:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YEah, it's true, so why not just accept it? I read in a book once that you should tell your partner that you love him/her every time you feel it, which should be around 12 times daily-a rough guide. Anyway, do you know that saying 'I love you' regularly actually makes you healthier?
It feels nice to be on the receiving end and also on the giving end.
2006-09-19 11:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the "girls "u are dating feel the need to hear it everyday and i use the word "girls. A woman don't need to hear it everyday cause after a while it becomes meaningless if its said every striking day . So no not all WOMEN want to hear it.
2006-09-19 11:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women, are driven by emotional intelligence where men are totally physical.
They want to know that they are appreciated cherished and important. That's not wrong and you don't have to say I love you all the time. There are many ways of conveying the message that you care.
2006-09-19 11:26:41 · answer #11 · answered by r g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋