I have 2 jobs, one of them is at a bikini bar (no I'm not looking for anyones approval). Well, at the bar there are HUGE and I mean fat girls, ugly face..but implants, and guys always want them. theres women in their 40's who arn't the best lookers (but some are!), they have a big rack...and guys want them too. Why are guys like this? Why dont they care about a girls face or anything else on her body other than T and A? I mean a girl can be 200 pounds with zits all over her face, but as long as she has the tities or *** its hot.
I just dont understand guys, care to explain? I would love to know what you all think. I am only 21, small chest (36 B) an ok butt., and a great face (thats the only thing i like about me), but guys dont seem to care about the face or anything...just the tatas. (reason im ranting is because you basically make money on your looks where i work, its kind of like a strip club, but you stay clothed). Guys, can i have your opinions? (sorry im VERY tired)
2006-09-19 04:10:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's simple really. All these women are just like a fantasy, they don't mean jack shiznit to these guys. The guys are thinking "I'd hit it and quit it!" or "She's ugly as hell but that's what doggie style is for!" Plus, they are most likely drunk so what else are ya gonna do but ogle titties?
2006-09-19 04:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a boob man. Even though I love a large rack on a woman, I do not want to be with a 200 pound ugly woman. I am looking for someone who is attractive, but not trashy or has tattoos all over the place. Someone who is educated and can carry on a conversation about important issues in the world.
Maybe the reason the women who are older and make more tips flirt much more with the patrons. If that is the type of place you are working at, then you need to effectively flaunt what you have and be very nice to people. Maybe they just flirt better.
You can improve your butt by doing squats at the local gym with moderate weight. It will build the muscle tone. There is nothing like a confident woman with a toned body that knows how to flirt. I am sure the other guys will agree.
2006-09-19 04:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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I have 2 jobs, one of them is at a bikini bar (no I'm not looking for anyones approval). Well, at the bar there are HUGE and I mean fat girls, ugly face..but implants, and guys always want them. theres women in their 40's who arn't the best lookers (but some are!), they have a big...
2015-08-18 19:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably not the best guy to ask, since I'm all about the booty. But, nice boobs are a definite plus, and I personally would choose a flat chested girl with a pretty face over an ugly one with big melons. Just me.
2006-09-19 04:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
STOP STEREOTYPING! NOT ALL MEN ARE INTO BIG BOOBAS.
Sorry - I had to pounce on you for your generalization of men. No other man would do it, and if I did it, 2 dozen women would certainly pounce on me for generalizing - but I digress...
I'd rather have the nice face, as long as the boobs weren't ugly (and yes, a good number of them are out of the range of acceptability)
Also, remember you're working in a bikini bar, which obviously caters to a certain male clientele most likely with breast fetishes. If you worked at an S&M club, you might wonder why men like to grovel at women's feet. You're getting a skewed perception of men because you're only seeing a small, but concentrated sample of men with the same interests.
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2006-09-19 04:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by jensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty women are threatening to normal guys! Normal guys usually like regular real women such as those that have some imperfections and are less likely to float to another "beautiful" person. And by the way working in a bikini bar is likely as far away from a normal job as you can get.
Remember strippers are nice to look at but you wouldn't want to date one! Not saying your a stripper "but" the same rationale applies.
2006-09-19 04:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by r g 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my mind boobs are the focus because I imagine them bouncing around and the cleavage factor. My wife is a 36b as well and I like them just as much.
Men like quick thrills, but when it come to actual relationships they would go for the better looking women. It is the environment that you work in that is making you feel this way. If is bothers you try a non-bikini bar it will help.
2006-09-19 04:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by Paka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be fair, look at where you doing your study. A bikini bar. Sorry most guys who go to places like that aren't saying "Dude let's hit the bikini bar there is this really beautiful girl there with a face like an angel." They say "Dude let's hit the bikini bar I saw this chick with Hooters bigger than my head!!"
Most guys want their wife to have a pretty face, but for a one night stand they huge ta-ta's are more important. Not that they are going to get a one night stand at the bikini bar, but they SURE as hell are not going their looking for a possible wife or girlfriend. They go there to look at big Mellons, no other reason.
2006-09-19 04:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I prefer athletic girls with a B to C chest. But is sound like your problem isn't your looks, it is your personality. How can you expect other people to think your attractive if you don't think so yourself. Personality is a Hugh factor when it comes to your profession (I'm guessing). If you are just moping around until your shift is over who is going to want your biz, much less tip you well.
2006-09-19 04:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋