last Thurday we decided not to meet for once and I decided to go with my mother for only half an hour or a little more to a public garden. However when I told my bf that I was out with mum at the garden, he got angry and told me that he expected me to stay at home. We had a great fight about it and I don't know whether I should go back to him or not as he already did it before (for example, I went only one to the beach with my mum this summer as he was really angry that I went so I didn't go anymore with her)
Can you give me some advice please?
2006-09-19 04:00:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Forget him-if you stay with him it will always be the same. Are you really willing to give up your mom for a guy? Keep in mind-if he gets mad that you're with your mom, do you really think he'll let you have friends. He's not worth it.
2006-09-19 04:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by heaven help me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was mighty selfish of him. Just because you both decided not to meet did not mean you should stay at home. Sounds like you need a little of freedom from this guy. It's nothing wrong with spending time with your mum or any one for that matter. You are only 19 and you have been dating this guy since 16. Suggest to him that you two take a break from each other and after a period of time and you still want to be together then you will with some changes. I personally would get this control freak out of my life but you will have to make the final decision on that. Good luck and enjoy life.
2006-09-19 04:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I can understand being upset if you went out with a guy friend or something. But this is kind of wierd. Sound's like you aren't supposed to have a life without him? Everybody has the right to get angry about anything they want IMO but the expression of anger for something that absurd is not appropriate. I'd say find someone else, unless there is something I am not understanding about this situation.
2006-09-19 04:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Justaguyinaplace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he can have a good time but you can't. You should spend time with your mom or friends or what not without having him get mad. Sounds like if he doesn't do anything than you shouldn't be able to either. If something does happen to the two of you, you don't want your friends and family to be mad at you because you never spent time with him. Try explaining this to him, if that doesn't work, then you are better off without him.
2006-09-19 04:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by staysee921 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't understand why your bf is angry. It seems either he doesn't like you mother or he doesn't trust you.
If its the first case that he doesn't like your mother, then have talk with your bf and tell him that your mother is very important to you and you can spend time with her.
And if its the second case, that he doesn't trust you, and its better to move on. You are young, don't waste time with a guy doesn't like you meeting anyone else and who doesn't trust you. Move ahead in life. Take care.
2006-09-19 04:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is turning into a controll freak. Lets say you stay with this man and you guys move in together now he wont let you see your mom today because of this and this...Pretty soon its not just your mom but the rest of your family then your friends. Trust me he is not worth it. Count your losses with this guy and move on.
2006-09-19 04:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i comprehend it is not trouble-free to handle a breakup. yet this guy in simple terms would not look to care approximately you like a real relationship ought to. If he extremely enjoyed you, he might supply up enjoying video games with you and in simple terms make it easier to know that he loves you. And if he did no longer love you once you had intercourse, then he in simple terms used you to get the excitement. perhaps he did such as you on the commencing up, then a short on a similar time as later in user-friendly terms loved you as a pal. He did no longer have the heart to make it easier to know and then in a while in simple terms could no longer take care of it anymore. So, he broke up with you. as quickly as he found out what he had achieved, he felt in charge and got here back to you. It grew to become into kinda his way of apologizing to you. a sprint awkward and bizarre, i understand. perhaps now, that's time which you in user-friendly terms moved on and you will discover somebody that's stable for you in each way.
2016-10-15 04:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the guy really loves you.
You now have a preview of what will happen in your relationship if you are living together in the future.
Can you picture yourself doing everything under his whim and fancy? He makes all the decisions for you? He will be mad at you if you don't listen to him?
Are you prepared to live such a life when you marry him?
2006-09-19 04:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of that guy he sounds very controlling and obsessive, you are only 19 and for goodness sakes you were with your mom!!!!!! Dump him before you go to far and do something like get pregnant by him or marry him, If hes this way now just imagine how it would be then!!!
2006-09-19 04:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by RHONDA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just wants to keep you for himself, I think you need to have a really serious talk with him and if things don't work out then is for a reason you will find someone better.
2006-09-19 04:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋