he came back twice...but we had a break up again on the same reason....though he still keeps a check on me whether i have started on with some1 else or not....believe me i dun find interest in any1 now....
im confused...i dunno what to do...shall i still wait for him to come back??....or shall i move on wid some1 elsE??.....
2006-09-19 03:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by SARA H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to sugar coat this so i'm just going to be honest with you. You really need to get yourself together because your defintely confused. I think you need to work on you first before you even try to consider a relationship with someone else. It just wouldn't be fair to get with someone else when your feelings are still with your ex. Why do you keep putting yourself through this over and over again? Your wasting so much time going back and forth with this. Whatever is breaking you two apart for the same reason over and over again needs to be dealt with. You ask us should you take him back?, but wouldn't it be quite crazy for us to give you an answer saying yes you should? You two need to really work on this problem that's breaking you two apart. If you still have feelings for this man then you don't need to get involved with anyone else because it simply wouldn't be fair to this next man. People deserve real love not someone that's still in-love with their ex. Get you and your life together first then make a firm desicion.
2006-09-19 04:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait for him now, if you already have broked up twice. Try to move on, dont search for new boyfriends yet. Try to have fun, like go out with friends, party and stuff.
Later when the time has come and you have get over him, you might find some other guys or maybe he will want you back again because he see you have became so confident, then its your choice to decide...and how you feel.
Good luck!!
2006-09-19 11:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by tess_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural to still have those feelings. But the only way to get over him is to move on and stop communicating. He's had two chances. Why wait for him so you can break up again over the same reason.
2006-09-19 10:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like an art form.
Thinking once you find the perfect object you'll love perfectly is as ridiculous as thinking you could paint perfectly if you only had the right thing to paint.
So yeah, love is something to be practiced and improved upon and there's no reason you can't love more than one person at once.
2006-09-19 10:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if you keep going through this, before you know it you will be an old maide.
2006-09-19 10:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it
2006-09-19 10:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but it is a warped love
2006-09-19 10:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on if you can't make it work with him
2006-09-19 10:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by carissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋