he needed to stretch out! I said nothing I got up got dressed and went home. Now he keeps calling me leaving messages and can't understand why I'm so pissed! We have been seeing each other for about two years and this is the first time he ever mentioned that he is uncomfortable when I spend the night. I understand he is 6'4 and he only has a full size bed (why I don't know) he claims I'm being oversensitive. Who thinks I'm overreacting?
2006-09-19 03:41:17 · 32 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cannot believe you put up with that!!! That is amazing disrespect, treating you like a whore who's finished a trick.
His height is irrelevant, you would not treat a dog like that.
Let him call, arrange to meet him and dont turn up. Do it again and again and when he asks you why just say youre dumping him.
I really hope youre not desperate enough to stay with him.
2006-09-19 03:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if my other half did that to me I would have done more then just got up and got dressed. I would have smacked him in the head, seriously. That is more then disrespectful that is rude in every sense of the matter. He would have been getting comfortable after I left with a black eye. The next time you talk to him tell him until he gets a bigger bed or till YOU are comfortable you aren't giving him any. See if the tables turn a different way then. Girl you are not over reacting, not by any means. You are alot nicer then I would have been in that same situation. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-19 03:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. I'd be pissed off to. If he doesn't feel comfortable with you spending the night, it's probably because he has something/someone to hide. If the size of the bed is the problem suggest that he get a bigger bed.
2006-09-19 03:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to keep the girl - he needs to get a new BED..shame on him ...NO you are not over-reacting at all. I'm not sure I'd ever speak to him again, but if you have a 2 year relationship up until then it's worth working on...but if the man can't even afford to buy a bigger bed so THAT doesn't happen again...then how important can you really be to him other than for sex? I'd say - get a bigger bed pal..or I'm moving on.
2006-09-19 03:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy is 6'5 / I'm 5'9 and we slept on a twin size bed for a year until we got out king size bed and he never once kicked me out. That was a bullshi*t way of telling you to leave and maybe it's his way of saying he is no longer interested in sharing his bed with you in an intimate overnight situation. Tell him that you are not being oversensitive and either he wants you in bed with him overnight or you'll no longer be over there at all.
2006-09-19 03:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He friggen told you to go home? whats wrong with him? at this time my boyfriend and I both only have twin beds, he is 6'4 and I am 5'11 and we deal with the space isue, some times sharing the space with a cat, and some times a black lab or two. I am not kidding either, if he is so uncomfortable in a full tell him to go buy a bigger bed. or you can just tell him you dont want to be uncomfortable so you will just go sleep at home.
2006-09-19 03:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not being insensitive. First off, he should of never made you leave at 2 in the morning, he should of waited and discussed this later before you spent the night again-and the way he came across wasn't nice,he could have been more sincere about it. I think he was just being a cranky a*ss. Anyway, do not spend the night again unless he asks.
2006-09-19 03:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats pretty ****** up. You do not I dont care what anyone says I repeat you do not tell anyone to go home at 2 in the morning anything could happen to you that late out all becasue this fool does not fit in his bed. Let me tell you let this slide only if he understands what he did is wrong. Best luck to ya let him know he cant do that to you.
2006-09-19 03:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your definitely not over-reacting. If that should happen to me, I would be totally pissed. Like you said he is definitely an asshole and deserves to be kicked back into the previous century for doing that to you. Dump him and find yourself a guy that will treat you like the lady that you are.
2006-09-19 03:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over-reacting. You'd think that after 2 damn years he'd spring for a bigger bed. He was very rude to you and I'd be hot too. He was dead wrong. To ask you to go home?? WTF? We'd have to be apart for a while or something because I'd be so pissed I couldn't even look at him. Girl, I'm pissed for you now. LOL
2006-09-19 03:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋