There is this girl i really really like, and my whole school knows it, she even knows it! Everytime people ask her if she likes me, she says, "I dont know, he needs to talk a bit more," but everytime im by her i don't know how to start up a conversation or what to say, im too afraid that it's gonna sound stupid and lame. What should i do? I LIKE HER TOO MUCH TO LET HER GO
2006-09-19 03:22:55 · 11 answers · asked by German L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with Hello, talk about the weather and that will loosen you up.
Then ask about classes, movies she likes, how pretty she looks, her pets, family, etc.
2006-09-19 03:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a couple of years ago i had the same problem and all i did was hang around and tried to fit in but it never worked out so i just started to be myself and i didn't care what i said or what i did i just "went with the flow" and started talking more and more no one cared what i said or what i did they were just glad i started being my self no matter what happens i always put in my input or $.02 worth. I guess what I am saying is don't worry about saying something stupid or not. Don't be to self conscious
2006-09-19 10:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by ivan j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, take a deep breath and relax. Then walk up to her and talk to her about some of your interests or what she is interested in. Imagine that she is just a friend. And if you make a blunder, laugh at yourself, it will make the tension seem a bit less. So act as if you are talking to one of your buddies and relax.
2006-09-19 10:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,i have the same probelum,so i'll tell you from a girls point of view that she probelly wants to get to know you so just be cool around her,act like you do with your other friends that are girls,but flirt a little more!!if you have IM it helps to talk to people,trust me<33RP
2006-09-19 10:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Renee Pello, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okkkkkkk. FIRST.. relax.
she seems all cool with it.. there's no promblem. REALLY. she's just another person.. just TALK to her.. even if you do say something lame.. WE'RE GIRLS. we think it's ADORABLE.. as long as you don't get CREEPY.
just ask her what her electives are.. maybe.. ask her to go to the movies.. cause you get some TALKING TIME there.. BUT it wont be akward or anything.
ask her what she did over THE WEEKEND..
SIMPLE ANDDDDDDDD E-A-S-Y
2006-09-19 10:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tel me u r waiting for tht girl to catch u up! Oh *** on b a man....wat makes u feel afraid... or if u think u dnt hv courage2 make a conversation inside school...then take her outside of school n so wat if u bunk ur period or two juz for havin her in ur life....start wid HI...n then carry on wid kind words.. n say watz goin on in d whole schul..u must b knowing,,then ask her out "wud u like2 bcum my frnd"n juz start converation ... if u feel awkward to talk in school dnt talk in front of those,u tease u both..juz ask her phone number...i guess uhv tht much courage 2 do all this....n then she will b welcomed in ur life slowly...bt b honest n nice to her alwayz truthful n b a gud frnd n nvr let her hurt ... bEST LuCk!
2006-09-19 10:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start by saying hi
2006-09-19 10:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by windy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a backbone and pull your head out of your a$$ or you will be doomed.
A coward dies a thousand times before his last breath.
2006-09-19 10:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how her day is going and make sure you look generally interested
2006-09-19 10:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by carissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up
u dont want to deal with the failure.
2006-09-19 10:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋