If you are in love with some one very much...shouldnt u be able to marry them...well of course if they love you back.
2006-09-19 02:57:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey gurl...
Yah I think you should beable to marry the person you love. No matter how old you are. If you are sure you love this person and he is right for you (CHRIS) then yah I think you should be able to get married to each other.
But remember I was engaged for almost a year then he left me for another chick so make sure he is the righ ton efor you.
LOVE YA LIKE A SIS\
KaReN
2006-09-19 03:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥I~love~my~Fiance♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should definitely be an adult, and I don't just mean over 18, but mature with a grasp what you want for your future. You should be out of school, and that means college. If you don't go now you'll never go, and a marriage without good jobs and money won't last long for the stress about finances. A marriage is more than love, it's responsibility and being grown up enough to make good decisions.
My mom got married when she was 14 and even though my parents are still together my mom is a shell of a human being. She never got to develop her own identity outside of being a wife and mother. And now that her kids are grown she extremely depressed and clingy. She went straight from being a child to having them.
2006-09-19 10:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you know that you want to be with that person for the rest of your life (obviously hearts change from time to time and divorces do happen) then you should be able to get married. I dont believe in people getting married under the age of 18, just because you are not even considered an adult until then, but after the age of 18, get married to whomever you want to. If your in love thats all you need. No ones persmission, no ones acceptance, nothing. Just you and the person.
2006-09-19 10:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by c_69_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age and maturity level.
If you are under 25 chances are about 50% that your marriage won't work. If you are under 20 the percentage is closer to 85% and higher. Why get married unless you are absolutely sure that individual can support you, financially and emotionally.
Remember married for life is a long, long, long, long time.
Look around you and see the other married people and how they cope. Are you emotionally mature enough to be married? I would think not! If you were you wouldn't post a question on this forum!
2006-09-19 10:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by r g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20
2006-09-19 09:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be at least 18 in most states, I think. Keep in mind that any self-respecting parent would completely cut financial support if you married before you graduated college, or at least have a full time job.
If you're under 18, shut up and turn on Nickelodeon, Spongebob's on. Oooooooooooh, who lives in a pineapple under the sea?
Absorbent and yellow and porous is he!
If nautical nonsense be something you wish!
Then drop on the deck and flop like a fish!
Ready?
Spongebob Squarepants
Spongebob Squarepants
Spongebob Squarepants
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Aaaagh-haaagh!
2006-09-19 10:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Joe & Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 1/2 years old when I married my husband.
2006-09-19 10:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be in your mid to late 20s...both went to college and both entirely self-sufficient financially. Even if you are in love, if you don't have your OWN life in order first - you will have a very messy and struggle of a marriage. Wait and get your own life in order - expect nothing less from your partner...THEN get married. Love is one thing - marriage is another. Marriage without love is stupid - but marriage without any means to support one another is stupid too. Remember there is much more to consider - Love is first and foremost - but not the only thing needed for a marriage to survive and to be all you can be for one another.
2006-09-19 10:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 21-22
2006-09-19 10:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in some countries they marry at age 11. so it depends on where you are at in the world, but you shouldnt get married too young. first go out into the world and see what it has for you.
2006-09-19 09:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋