Its Really Hard To Lose Her Because I Really Love Her And I Felt Like We Had The Best Thing Going. I Try To Move On But Its Really Hard And I Cry For Her Every Night Because I Really Want Her Back. She Wont Answer When I Call But I Really Need Her And I Cant See Myself Moving On And Living W/O Her.... Somebody Please Help!!!! What Should I Do?????
2006-09-19 02:33:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though i could easily move on and talk to any other girl that wants to talk to me i dont want to because i want her back
2006-09-19 02:40:27 · update #1
She felt like i was not there for her enough... almost like i was supposed to be there for her 24/7. I tried my best to spend as much time with her as i can but it was never enough for her... I feel bad
2006-09-19 05:50:27 · update #2
Sorry,but you have to face up to the fact that your girl is'nt coming back. You've driven her further away by being so clingy,that's why she won't answer your calls,she does'nt want to give you false hope of getting back together. You have to learn how to live by yourself for a while because I don't think you're very independent. It's going to take a while longer to get over her,but you will. She'll always be a part of your memories,but that's all. Meanwhile,you need to get back out into the world and not mope around on your own. You CAN live without her,there's been millions of other people,just like you,and they survive. There's a life out there for you,live it well and wisely. She was'nt the right one for you,the girl who was meant for you is still out there. Good luck
2006-09-19 02:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want someone back who doesn't want you? Your either really stupid or selfish. Moving on from a break up you didn't want is hard but time heal all wounds. I know you don't want to hear that! You want to hear a way to win her back and live happily ever after! that isn't going to happen! Find yourself something to do to keep your mind busy and not thinking of her. Get more involved in family for example, a hobby etc! If and I do mean IF she wants you back she will have to seek you out and that probably isn't going to happen! Life is filled with heartbreaks and this is just one of them you will be fine and will get through this.
2006-09-19 09:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on is the best solution. After crying over her, pick up the pieces of ur broken heart and move on. Distract yourself, hang out more often with friends and avoid doing things that remind u of her. Before u know it, she will be off ur mind and someone else will be ur main focus. Good luck.
2006-09-19 09:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by hottest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, she apparently has. Keep yourself busy, surround yourself with positive people, take up a hobby or two, spend time with family, go to church and get involved...there are many people in this world who need you and WILL appreciate you, go within-meditate, learn a new software program...anything to avert your mind to a more positive flow and regeneration for yourself...this all helps with the healing process. Good luck! Hang in there!
2006-09-19 09:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Guinevere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you type like that? It's annoying. Anyway, if you can't see yourself moving on then you won't. Now, it you hurting you and not her. You've decided to wallow in the pain and so you condem yourself. She dedcided the best thing for her was to move on. You can bet she isn't crying every night. Nope, she's enjoying life. The best thing you can do for you is to move on. Out with the pain and into life again.
2006-09-19 09:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey you, this is not the end of the world. Though it is quite a painful phase you are going through, do not give up. i am sure you two shared lots and had loads of fun but life is life. Take it as a test of life and i am sure lots of girls would like you as boyfriend-you sound like a cute and cool guy. Remember:''what is yours but flew away, will come back to you only if it was meant to be yours. Best of luck!!!
2006-09-19 09:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by halokitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. The whole point of a relationship is the sharing of mutual feelings. It's obvious this relationship is one way. Get out there and explore your options. There are many women who would be happy to be in the type of relationship you need.
2006-09-19 09:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do know how you feel but you have to make yourself go on if she loves you as much as you love her then you shouldnt have to do anything just let her knowyou really love her and that if you did something wrong to her that you are truly sorry for taking her for granted and you want make that mistake again.send her flowers and a nice card and give her some time to think dont sweat her let her realize that you two are meant to be.and if she doesnt then take out time to heal your heart and move on with your life and learn to love your self more.and always treat a woman with respect,and attention.good luck also prayer for my broken heart helped me
2006-09-19 09:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will, think of how u lived without her n see the positives in everythin am tellin u there is always a positive in everythin especially when it comes to broken rlnships. think of these things, they will help u move on. dont rush into any new one as yet. first live life on ur own and try to enjoy it. u will be ok....
2006-09-19 09:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie it will take time before your able to move on but in the mean time keep your mind busy with other things. think of where you can go from here not where you have been. soon each day will get easier. good luck and you always have us to talk to.
2006-09-19 09:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋