She is insisting that she need space and time but at the same time I try to give that to her she is very sure she wants space only during a certain week and when i get used to the idea of giving her space and do my own thing she she does a 360 and calls me to come over
I know I should push her away and be a prick to her but I love her !!
Is this normal or what Its a roller coaster ride at times
2006-09-19 02:28:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know, but it seems my boyfriend is the same way. He's been divorced twice and every time I try to get close to him and just be affectionate, he acts like I'm trying to control him or suffocating him. So when I back off, he tells me I don't care enough about him and that I'm ignoring him...
I don't know what to do either. I feel like i"m paying the price for what his ex's did to him...
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2006-09-19 02:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her now you need your own space for two weeks. This will also give her her space. Tell her that you will call her AFTER the two weeks is up and then the two of you can have a heart to heart. With you asking for the time she may be able to see what you are going through and realize that she wants to be with you. Tell her to take that time to find out what she wants out of your relationship. Good luck.
2006-09-19 02:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced twice should be a red flag.
Sounds like she's never been sure of what she wants.
You need to find someone who wants the same things you do.
2006-09-19 02:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably feeling unsure of herself after going through her 2 divorces. Talk to her abt your confusion and see what comes out of it.
We outsiders are not in a position to interfere, both of you have to smooth things out by yourselves.
2006-09-19 02:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ttraveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes woman change their minds constantly. It's sounds like she wants you around when it's convenient for her. Maybe she was lonely and wanted some company after she thought about it. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 02:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's in and out of what she wants just ask her wht is it she really wants
2006-09-19 02:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋