i have met with her couple of weeks ago in egypt , she was on aholiday with her family in a resort , so do i , but i was alone . we had kisses i told her that i care about her and she said the same , 3 days after she told me that she love me , shes from russia and am from libya , she dont speak english very well but we worked it out . am 18 and shes 16 , we didnt had sex . it was great and everything went fine , untill we both went back home and school started , in the first few days when i call her she answers and we talk , but after about aweek , when i call her mid night weather she dont answer or she says she want to sleep , but she keep saying i love you , i dont know if she even try to call or not because the lines here are too hard to get when you call , but when i call her daytime she usually answers that she cant talk for some reason , and then hang up , we had agreat time togather but now i dont know if she love me anymore . what should i do . is she putting me in atest .help
2006-09-19 02:21:28 · 12 answers · asked by puretruth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way , she said that she wanted to see me in the future and that she want me to write her , and call her . she had arelationship before me and she was in alove story untill he died in acar accedent , but from my own experiance she was happy that she met me , she even had to fight with her mom because of me . please tell me what do you think.
2006-09-19 02:38:04 · update #1
by the way , she said that she wanted to see me in the future and that she want me to write her , and call her . she had arelationship before me and she was in alove story untill he died in acar accedent , but from my own experiance she was happy that she met me , she even had to fight with her mom because of me . please tell me what do you think.
2006-09-19 02:38:07 · update #2
Its hard to tell from the little bit of information youve given but a few things might help. I have a great friend who I get along with really well (in person)... but she is just awful on the phone, Its nothing specific she just has really poor phone conversation skills, It could be that simple ! mabye your girlfriend just doesnt like to talk on the phone or mabye she just isnt and good at it, mabye if you have the chance to see her again (in person) you might get a better idea of where you stand. If thats too hard what about video conferencing so you can see her facial expressions :-)
2006-09-19 02:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by psycgirl25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that she is into you. (Long distance relationships are hard. I should know. I'm in one). One thing you must do is try to confront her on how you feel. If she loves you, she will give you an answer so you will not feel troubled about her behavior. Just brace yourself if it does or does not go well. If she is still into you but continues her behavior you mentioned, she may be shy on the phone or going through something. Try to find a an alternate way to communicate with her. Aside from this, she may just be seeing how much you love her, so don't give up. Stay strong and keep trying. And if it all goes bad, at least you know you gave it your best.
2006-09-19 09:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by mazemasterigc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest with you and say that you both had a lovely time this past summer but it was a brief summer romance. She is now back at her home and is trying to be kind to you but really doesn't want the relationship to go any further. We ALL have had these brief encounters so don't feel badly. You will find someone to love in due time. She has been giving you hints that it is over by saying she wants to sleep, etc. Just let go, move on, and find that wonderful girl you will truly fall in love with. This past summer will just be a happy yet bittersweet memory when you are older.
2006-09-19 09:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Royallady1947 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely dude If she had any probs in her house means she will do like that ask her a time when you are going to call her so that she can talk with you and try learn her language : ) real love will wins the world but it will takes a time keep smiling...
2006-09-19 09:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by shashi_s14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that but I'm sure for 70% that she is seeing others, but you could ask her...I mean, no harm done, right? If it is true that she has move on, at least you know it and didn't put yourself to a false hope. Good luck with that.
2006-09-19 09:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think she really understands the meaning of love. You only knew each other a couple of days. I would just give up on her. If she is interested let her call you.
2006-09-19 09:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by malorieks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seeing others
2006-09-19 09:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
srry dude but shes plying you big time
2006-09-19 09:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do need to talk to her and find out why she is doing that for.
2006-09-19 09:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's seeing another guy.
2006-09-19 09:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋