I am getting bored with my relationship. I love my girlfriend, but i am getting bored. Also, she seems to be getting a little, obsessed mabye? I know she loves me, but in her room alone, she has 14 pictures of me hanging up, and then another 2 dosen through out the rest of her apartment. I dont know what to think, we have tried EVERYTHING, but she is not interested in doing the things i like to do. Plus she doesnt like hanging out with my friends, and I am the only friend she has. What should i do about those two things?
2006-09-19 02:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by Irish ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, she is beyond high maintenance and its time for you to ditch her!
If you are the only one she hangs out with, then she IS obsessed!
If she isn't willing to try new things with you and friends and their girlfriends, time to move on
2006-09-19 02:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by koleebear 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well she does love you ALOT! Just sit down and talk to her about everything that you feel. Communication is a big thing in relationships. If she doesn't really want to hang out with your friends then ask her why. Maybe she jsut wants to be able to spend time with you and can't b/c you have other things that are going on and shes not really a part of it. i'm sure there is a logical reason. Maybe you should ask her what she likes to do and what she wants to do with you. If you don't like the outcome then, maybe you 2 shouldn't be together.
2006-09-19 09:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lost In Love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one thing's for sure here..SHE LOVES YOU..plus she cannot afford to lose you. If you love her really, consider this as a stage that your gf i sgoing through. Maybe she is still enjoying the cheap thrills of being in-love. Let her. SHe will get pass this stage and believe me., its gonna get better. Nothing is bad with too much love. What we dont want to happen is one losing love. Right? And she doesnt have any friends? then help her, intoduce her to your friends, having common friends are great in relationships. Try to go out in groups. It should be fun. Spending time woth the peson you love the most and the people you care about is teh greatest.
2006-09-19 09:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by smooth criminal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoah!!
u better stop her from being a psycho. it may sound real bad but she's being overly obsessed with u. hanging ur pictures in her whole apartment?! my god!! ever asked her why she did dat? y she dun like ur friends? y she dun have any other friends? why she's being so crazy about u?
i think at 1st u think its cool. its like u're her biggest fan. but after a while, for me, it'll get kind of creepy since im da only person she hangs out wit. u better have a real long heart to heart talk wit her.
worst still, a gf who doesnt like ur friends? dats real frustrating. i mean. everyone needs friends. what if at a later part she ask u to choose her or ur friends? dats a real dilemma. ur gf needs to understand dat u have ur own life. ur life dun only revolves around her. n neither is her life revolves only wit u. agree?
make her understand ur situation. make her see what u see of her. make her see that u have a life and that she has one too.
love is real tough if there's no understanding. worst still, is the other party only wants things his/her own way.
compromise.
understand.
communicate well.
and be realistic.
all the best!
:)
2006-09-19 09:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves u...that's why she's obsessed with u.IMHO, If u really love her, continue the relationship...if u don't...maybe u should stop everything as soon as possible because the longer u are in a relationship, the more it'll hurt when u break up.
2006-09-19 09:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her that you think that she is beginning to lose herself in the relationship and lose that special thing that independent streak that made you interested in her in the first place. Encourage her to make friends, you can even make mutual friends by signing up for team sports or some type of classes.
Good luck. You need to fix this now or it could destroy your relationship.
2006-09-19 09:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by jennypoo803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Thats tough to deal with, how have to been saving your sanity! If you've been enjoying the attention its a different story, BUT if not its time you told her your prefences and your need for space. Boredom is bad for any relationship, so take stock and get ready to have a blast, lest part to move on.
2006-09-19 09:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by legal eagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sounds like shes love struck and may be come very hostile if you leave her but really shes need a life try to introduce her to your friends girl friends
2006-09-19 09:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a bunny boiler,,,,xx
2006-09-19 09:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Joeline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, she deranged you besta get your sexy *** out her door while you still can....you know she obsessed and she gonna hold on to you like theres no tomorrow.
2006-09-19 09:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by zeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋