Me and my baby father is not together anymore. He is in the military and he went to hawaii for duty. now, he is in fort worth, texas but he is coming to houston tomorrow to see our son. I want him back, but i don't want to look desperate. and i don't want to appear needy, even if i am. lol :) i don't know what to say, how to act.. i am all goofy right now. HELP.. WHAT SHOULD I DO. I want us to be together again. but, the bad thing is he is dating someone. do i even have a chance. keep in mind... our break up was terrible, it was really bad... but i want him NOW, not sexually. well yeah that but i want him mentally and emotionally. and i want him to want me too.
2006-09-19 02:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it. Don't be so foward though. I mean don't demand that he get back with you. First start off by apologizing about the break up then put the guilt trip on him. Tell him his son needs him and how growing up with both his parents together will make him a better man and he will grow up happy. Tell him how it's not fair that he is not around to see his son as much as he could if you were together. Tell him about the things he has missed and is going to miss about his son. Tell him how you feel genuinely about him. Cry and make it dramatic so that it will be something he thinks about on his way home. Don't insist he gives you an answer right away tell him to think about it. and that you will be there when he makes his mind up.
2006-09-19 02:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tyler&Noah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you are desperate. If he has a girl does'nt sound like he cares for you he got what he wanted, if he treated you bad before why would you want more of the same treatment?For the baby sake you are better off the baby does'nt need to be around that.
2006-09-19 02:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on, after all don't forget why you two broke up. He probable looks attractive to you "right now" because he is with someone else.
2006-09-19 02:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do tell how u missed him and more.
2006-09-19 02:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it !!!!!!! get over him !!!!!!move on !!!!!!
2006-09-19 02:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why?
2006-09-19 02:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋