I keep thinking about him and what could have been although he says we can be friends, but I am finding it really hard, to accept it's not more
2006-09-19 02:03:45 · 33 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on and stay friends.
2006-09-19 02:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wonder because you've built this sorta mental sanctuary involving you and this guy but the truth of the matter is that you'll never be.
There is nothing you can do but be a friend to him. You can't turn him straight although you don't think its a bad idea.
Just try to accept the fact that hes gay and move on from there.
I wish you all the luck in the world!!!!!
2006-09-19 02:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to channel that energy elsewhere. He is gay and your not going to make him straight. There is really no use being his friend because you are going to be looking at him in another way and you will get jealous when you see him with a man or he talks about a man. Don't that make you feel kind of gross towards him anyway. I don't have anything against gay people and don't mind being their friends but one that I am attracted to I just rather let him be.
2006-09-19 02:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler&Noah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still the same person you liked before you found out he is gay. It shouldn't change a thing in terms of how you feel towards him.
He probably needs your support right now too so stay loyal to him.
2006-09-19 02:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by sammi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very difficult situation to be in because it`s not like he will change his mind!!
In time, your heart will help you keep him as a very good friend and someone you can talk to about boyfriend trouble.....
Be happy although you are feeling very gutted at the moment...
2006-09-19 02:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Happy. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure him. Support him and be there for him as a friend. If he feels you're pushing him into a corner emotionally you'll lose him as a friend. Try not to get obsessed by these feelings and instead value the friendship you have with him
2006-09-19 02:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady friends enjoy their gay male friends and can have a night out with them without any sexual pressure. Just have to adjust to your new role with him. We always dwell on friends that dont go the distance because we never know what might have been.
2006-09-19 03:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know forgetting about this guy might be hard, (especially if you've made a connection with him) but i think you should just get over him. He's probably not thinking about you right now. Let him go and move on with life!!!
2006-09-19 02:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by meamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it, really, he is gay. He likes and wants the same things you do in a relationship from a man. There is really nothing you can do, unless he wakes on day and decides he likes women.
Hello, move on girlfriend
2006-09-19 02:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tad bit selfish, it probably took years for the lad to come out of the closet and accept his gayness and 'You are finding it hard to accept'.
2006-09-19 02:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't help how you feel, but you have to respect the fact that he likes what you like. Just be there to support him as a friend should. You're gonna have to try your hardest to put that like for him somewhere else.
2006-09-19 02:09:07 · answer #11 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋