It this guy that Im really into. We've been talking to each other on and off since 02. We never really hooked up because we both were in different states and going to school. I had a couple of boyfriends and even had a baby. We stopped talking whenever I got involved with someone. Which made him not really trust me or want to get with me. Now Im single and he is single and he doesnt want a girlfriend, because he is in a different state. I really like him but should I wait around for him to come back home? He told me he is not talking to no other girls but can I really believe that? Its like we are in a relationship but no lable. Am I just playing myself? If I talk to another guy he gets mad but we dont go together. What should I do?
2006-09-19 01:39:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him if he is legit - he needs to step up and make a play.
If he isn't with it...then he needs to back off and let you breathe.
2006-09-19 01:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation as you this guy didnt want a gurlfriend but felt like he had a right to tell me what to do. Best advice I can give you is move on if he really cares he will come after you one day but dont put your life on hold for him. You have a baby now and you need a real man by your side who wants to be seriouse I know it hurts alot cause Im sure you love this guy. But I promise you its not worth it to wait i moved on and now I dont worry about a guy who was never mines anyways. Also Im sure he does talk to other girls as friends or maybe more. Goodluck to you
2006-09-19 08:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes giving u a hard time then just let him go . dont waste ur time on him waiting around when u can be with a nice guy that deserves u by now. still keep in touch but dont consider a relationship between the 2 of u
2006-09-19 08:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by emaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is just let it go . because let me tell you if you really do love him or even like him very much as you say , you wouldnt hang out with other guys for any reason , once you did this he will never trust you even if you two went back togather . like me right now , i am in the middle of arelationship and she lives in russia and me in libya , i dont know weather if shes dating other guys or not although it kills me inside when i think about it , and she always say that she love me , but i offen have daupts , so if you want my apenioun i would say you should forget about him and get over it before you get involved more . good luck,
2006-09-19 08:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by puretruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you have had a number of relationships but none actually fructified into marriage, which ,is the ultimate goal of womanhood.You have to first decide yourself whether you want to settle in life once forall, or not.if you decide to settle down ,then you should approach him through a common friend who knows for sure that he is not seeing any one and that he wants to settle down with you.It is unfortunate but true that, if a man can enjoy relationship without the burden of marriage he goes ahead with it, so be cautious!
2006-09-19 08:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweet smell -removes bad oder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes talking to other girls, for sure. Dont let him control you from that far away... Thats not fair and its ridiculous. I was in a long distance relationship from Chicago to Arizona. We were supposedly exclusive and all that BS. He was constantly dating other girls, they would call whenever I visited or he visited me.
DONT BELIEVE HIM AND TRUST ME-YOU WILL REGRET ALL THE WASTED TIME!!!!!!
2006-09-19 08:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god ask this guy how he feels about you out right tell him you are getting mixed singles from him. why should you wait around for him to get is act together ask him and then you will know where you stand with him and then you can get on with your life.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-19 08:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by jambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think rather then judging that guy you should have a peep within yourself. Decide whom you want and why. Love is not something that will swing from person to person. I think just bcoz you dont have any guy to give you attention , you are falling for him.
2006-09-19 08:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by h p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gather that he doesn't want you as his girlfriend because he's in a different state. Well, leave out the because part. Forget about him.
2006-09-19 08:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dick V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and play the field for now. Seems like he is not as interested in you as you are in him. I don't see too much of a future for you with him.
2006-09-19 08:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋