Why is it that no matter how hard we try there is just no pleasing you guys. We always have to hear about how you changed your lives for us. We also made sacrifices in the relationship but yet all you guys seem to focus on is what you did. We are accused of being smothering and invading your space. We allow you to chat to other girls and yet if we should have guy friends then you want to dump us because we cheating. Please explain or shed light on all of this confusion? Or is it just because, YOU GUYS JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT?
2006-09-19 01:28:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welcome to the confusing world of life. You are right when you say guys don't know what they want. I admit to it openly. Also, quit trying so hard to please others. You don't exist just to do that; instead guys should find it more important to please you. Women are more important than men and should be pleased and worshipped at all times. Since men are simple creatures keep them confused and order them around; they are happiest when they have something to whine about.
2006-09-19 03:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just partnering up with the wrong guys. Life is full of change when you partner up with someone. No change is impossible. Complaining about it is a personality trait. Of course there is positive talk if someone is trying to share feelings or concerns that should be addressed, but if they are complaining for the sake of complaining, they are just the wrong type of guy. Start being attracted to a new type of guy. The best boyfriends or dates often make the worst partners.
2006-09-19 01:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know what I wanted for many years but my gf just fell in my lap and she is all I have ever wanted and we both love each other the way we are ( no change on either part) I think it takes time to know what you want and what you think you want some times isn't
2006-09-19 01:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do what you allow us to do. If your going to put up with it we're going to keep doing it. Its a matter of controlling the relationship And for some reason some girls think they can't control. Think about this what do you think would happen if all girls went on strike no sex for weeks--------- I say no more
2006-09-19 02:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALRIGHT, I UNDERSTAND THAT SOME GUY IS SCREWING UP EVERYTHING FOR THE FUTURE BETWEEN YOU AND ANOTHER GUY, BUT BEFORE I GET PISSED OFF (AND WANT TO HURT SOMEONE) YOU NEED TO REALIZE THAT WOMEN DO THE SAME THINGS that guys do. Its not just guys, so PLEASE do not generalize, becuase not all of us are like that. Women do the same and just as often. So there is no cure, except that you need to find a good guy, becuase if a guy is doing this, then he isnt a good one. THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN, before you speak. Not all guy are bad, same with girls.
2006-09-19 01:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i get exactly that from any girl ive ever wanted to be with...i would love to know what it feels like to have someone really love you..i can and do to often and get hurt and let down..makes you wonder doesnt it ,the ones who want,wait and are honourable are the ones who get thier hearts broken..so ive found..i know what i want and thats for someone to show me love and companionship,im tired of being alone for so long though all ive wanted is to share my life not waste it alone..sometimes you gotta trust and not give up on yourself and whats important for you
2006-09-19 01:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what to say. It sounds like the guys you met pity themselves for whatever reason, which isn't nice.
On behalf of all guys I apologize for such silly behaviour. Still, I recommend you not to give up on us. There are guys who don't suffer from that !!
2006-09-19 01:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys scared his gurl wuld go off wit another guy.
for me i dun mind my gurl have guys as friends as long nothing bad happen. this way i culd really noe wether she really love me or not.
owh... guys also scared that other guys wuld do anyting to sum1 he love dat y sumtime guys dun like his gurl to be other guy even just fren unless there more gurls n less guys dis way we dun realy worry. guys can do crazzy things u noe even if he noe its wrong n dat gurl have bf he culd just jump n kiss her. then the gurl bf fist will be kising his face muahahaha....
2006-09-19 02:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Syazwans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are hard to please, period.
Some guys play a double standard
We know what we want, but seldom see the conflict in ideals that it generates
2006-09-19 01:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you're projecting your own faults onto someone else. maybe you don't know what you want.
think about it. before blaming all men (which is very immature by the way), look at your own faults.
2006-09-19 01:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by the man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋