I am going to be get married soon and i still have a doubt ... can i have intercourse with my wife on the first night or i have to take some time to do that.... still i haven't spoke with my fiance even once.... what to do ??
2006-09-19 00:59:41 · 13 answers · asked by Venman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
how, so very wonderful, o.k. hun, if it`s a big wedding & trip, you don`t have to if you are both too tired.or if it`s that time of the month,RELAX- explore each other,my advice is to buy her a long white sleeping gown with thin longmatching robe-, just a little bit see-thru. give it to her-as a wedding night present A.S.A.P. this is very personal,if you can`t face her,write a little note- like for you eyes only,for our wedding night. goodness, you better think of some kind of birth control.spermicides are a good choice.you might need lubricant. good luck- she sounds as scared as you.just give her lots of lovin & let mother nature take over -be gentle
2006-09-19 01:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing Where are you from? you can do any thing as far as sex go between you two after the wedding, Why can't you have intercourse well try it you don't have to wait it is a normal thing to do to the person that is your wife
2006-09-19 01:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Brooklynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can make love the first night. However, you may want to take the time to get to know her, and to talk to her, and to make her feel comfortable and safe. It will be much better if she trusts you.
2006-09-19 01:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You consummate the marriage on the first night you are married! Then you do it every night after that!!
2006-09-19 04:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you've never met? You said you'd never spoken to her. If this is an arranged marriage and you've never laid eyes on one another then you should get to know one another before consummating your marriage.
2006-09-19 01:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You *can* because she's your wife - you don't *have* to if you or she aren't comfortable with it right away. Ask her that night!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding :)
2006-09-19 01:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u must go for it. This is the essence of marriage.
2006-09-19 05:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by morpheous143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about your "performance issues" with your to-be wife.
I really don't care to hear about it.
2006-09-19 03:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still haven't had sex with her? Why not on the first night? Are you 12?
2006-09-19 01:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Consumating the relationship comes to mind........
2006-09-19 01:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋