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while trying so hard we cannot find the ways how to start a talk and make friendship with her

2006-09-19 00:58:13 · 12 answers · asked by AMRIT 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well here's an easy way but takes a little practice.....!! You are firstly not in love just having a crush, because love is two-way, so if she doesn't know you and you don't know her thats definitely not love...believe me. Now back to your predicament.....you have to practice with other girls first like your friends, your sister, your cousin...ask them what their ideas are of how they want to be approached...once you've collected your data and practiced enough move in calmly and confidently....buy a girls hankerchief or a hair band and walk past her and then turn around and call her and ask her if its hers....you have now broken the Ice and made 1st contact...now use your data and practice to continue chatting.......try it all it takes its 1% creativity and 99% courage....Good luck!

2006-09-19 03:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mark Ozzy 1 · 0 0

don't try hard, be yourself. Try to be a bit funny. Don't talk too much, listen a good deal (anyone likes to be listened to, especially girls). Don't start too obviously showing off.

At the end of the day, girls that are worth it, and like you (or think that they could like you), will be much more kind and patient that you might imagine, and may even consider clumsy efforts as cute (provided you listen to them, show that you care).

As for the girls with whom it will only work if you are the perfect showman - those are in love with the show, so they're not worth going for. Plus by going for them and failing, say in public, you may end up making a foold of yourself, which will not help when you'll be pursuing other, more worth it girls.

Good luck

2006-09-19 08:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 0 0

Walk up to her when no one is around. Tell her that you don't usually do this but ever since you saw her you couldn't stop thinking about her. You can even tell her if you're nervous or shy. Girls like guys who can admit their feelings. Tell her that she seems like a really nice person and you would like to get to know her better. If she doesn't really know you, tell her that you know she might feel uncomfortable going out with you alone because she doesn't really know you. Suggest that both of you go out somewhere with a group friends and both of you can start getting to know each other. Or, tell her that you can take her for dinner, just the both of you alone, but the choice is hers. Whatever you do, do not make whistling or calling noises to girls in public. Most decent girls think it's disrespectful. Just be youself so she will get to like you for who you are.

2006-09-19 10:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Hema 3 · 0 0

I know what this feeling is like. It all comes down to being you in the end so you might as well give that impression to start with. Just be cool and act normal. Talk about stuff that you would talk about to other friends. FYI, avoid subjects like meat packing plants, septic systems, etc.

2006-09-19 08:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by 1* 2 · 0 0

First of all, find out wot field is she interested in
Then go ahead and talk 2 her abut it...once the girl understands that u share her interest, she will never stop talkin'

2006-09-19 12:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it's not hard just go to her and tell directly I love u sooooo simple i think the girls love this way more than others
take care and bye

2006-09-19 08:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0 0

just call her and start talking by asking what are u doing just now by asking these type of questions u wil not afraid.

2006-09-19 08:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by savita singh 1 · 0 0

Wohi hoga jo manjoore khuda hoga!(you only success by God's grace)..

2006-09-19 11:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 0 0

Just say hello, and ask her if she wants to see a movie sometime.

2006-09-19 08:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by green eyed girl 1 · 0 0

Without talking how you know that she loves you...

2006-09-19 08:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by lovingneighbour 2 · 0 0

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