How do you know if your boyfriend is attracted to your sister?

Question

This may seem like an odd question but I was just wondering if there's any way to tell if your boyfriend finds your sister attractive or if he wants to screw her? I'm just worried that might happen to me.

Answer 1

I wouldn't ask them if I were you, maybe if you ask you will give them or him anyway an Idea and he might even consider it, knowing guys I wouldn't doubt it for a second! So I say observe them, and see what results you get, sometimes you can tell by the way your bf acts around your sister, maybe he gets kind of nervous or stares at her, you know things like those! Just try not to think too much about it though, and trust your boyfriend, if you have no proof that he wants to "Screw her" then try to trust him, remember this "trust" is a very important factor in a relationship, but remember this, it's not good to rely too much on guys, they come and go.....but your sister, they she doesn't come and go, if she loves you she wouldn't do something like that to you, so think about that as a plus, well of course it all depends on how well you get along with her!! Good Luck

Answer 2

It's actually not uncommon for a boyfriend/girlfriend to have noticed the sibling. You have to realize he was attracted to you, and your sister probably looks similiar as well as has some of the same values you do coming from the same family. Same goes for boyfriends brotheres. While many of notice a mild passing fascination only few would act on it. Those are the ones you want to get rid of. How do you know if he is attracted to her?? Ask him.. Then watch the way he reacts when he answers you. And your worried?? I hope that doesn't mean you have the type of sister that would actually sleep with him. If so....that's your bigger problem.

Answer 3

It's hard to tell because it's possible your b/f may be attracted, or maybe he's just trying to be nice to your sister. Look out for eye contact, smiling, alot of joking, or even physical contact. If you've noticed any of these going on, then slyly make a comment to them both and say "My, you two seem to be getting along pretty well" or "My, aren't you two quite friendly" and then leave it at that for awhile. It will give them some time to think and pick up on the fact that maybe you have noticed some kind of attraction between them both. Either they'll quit the flirting, or it will continue. If it continues, then you need to confront whomever is doing the most flirting. I don't know if you're a jealous person, so maybe there's nothing there afterall. If you're still not convinced, you should say something to them both (preferrable your b/f) and ask him to cut it out because it's starting to make you feel uncomfortable. Explain to him exactly what you are seeing.

Answer 4

Love is powerful and attractions can be overcomed, Why worry about something that has not happen, Don't give him any reason to want to be with someone else, Have faith !!!

Answer 5

well there is a sure fire test that will either give you the answer to that one. Tell your sister to make a pass at him, if he goes with her dump him if not his yours. what happen with the dog and the 2 bones? You just gotta trust your sister on this one. and she has to be willing to kick his balls if he goes after her.

Answer 6

Obviously you are noticing signs, so I think you should ask him and nip it in the bud before it get out of hand and if he would even consider doing that then you shouldn't be with him anyway.

Answer 7

Does he pay more attention to her than he does to you? Or you could always ask him... just back into the question so it's not so upfront.

Answer 8

I'm already screwing your sister, so tell him to back off!

Answer 9

Pay extra attention to how he acts around her.

Answer 10

If he truly loves you,..he won't do that.